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Finally Free!!
Submitted by: Michelle
New YorkFinally opened up to love.
I am so grateful for The Secret!
My boyfriend and I broke up a few years ago and I knew he was my soulmate, I just knew it. That’s when I first discovered The Secret. Once I started believing and letting God take the wheel, my boyfriend called me out of the blue and said we belong together and we’ve been together ever since.
Fast forward 3 years later. I was struggling with anxiety. The fear was paralyzing. I’d obsess over his faults, how we aren’t “perfect” for each other, everything he does wrong, when he doesn’t laugh at my jokes, how he doesn’t respond the way I want, he doesn’t text me enough, he doesn’t, he doesn’t, he doesn’t! It consumed me. Every thought. All day I would be grappling with whether I should leave him or if it’s me causing the issue. Because in reality, he loved me, was faithful, tried his hardest to be a good boyfriend and didn’t have a mean bone in his body. I realized that it was my own fears and insecurities that were making me ignore the good and focus solely on the bad. It almost felt wrong to see the good, because my ego would tell me “you can’t ignore the bad, there’s things that needs to be fixed and you should probably leave him.”
Finally after all the of torment, I was done!! I couldn’t take the anxiety and depression anymore and I was driving my boyfriend away. I started using The Secret again.
I wrote everything I was grateful for. I only spoke highly of my relationship and boyfriend. I complimented my boyfriend and thanked him for something every single day. I did things that I love, no matter how “lame” they were. I also meditated on what I love about myself, him, and us.
In only a week my life changed!! I felt positive and happy. I felt love for him again and I felt love from him again. My walls finally came down and the fear subsided. He also started treating me better, loving me more, and being happier himself. Now, I can say our relationship has never been better. I have no doubt that he is the one and that he is my soul mate. I have been blessed with the best relationship I could ever ask for and I now have the courage and attitude to fully embrace and enjoy it.
The Secret really works. It’s all about changing your perspective on the world and loving yourself first. Fill yourself up and God will do the rest. Believe. Trust. Receive!