Finally, My Boyfriend Came Back!
Well, I have so many things to say that I don’t think I will ever finish, but I will try to make it “short.” First of all I want to thank Rhonda and her team for such a great book that has helped so many people, and everybody who posts their stories here because it sure helped me so much!!
I knew I would be writing my story here too, and here I am. My boyfriend and I had been together for almost 2 years and a half, and he one day decided wasn’t feeling the same way about me, he was not putting effort in the relationship and he thought this was not fair for me, and decided to break up with me, in June 2012. I was devastated, however, this had been the second time he did this to me. He broke up with me for the first time (after almost 2 years of relationship) because I was a little too jealous, and he “did not feel the same way anymore.” He never said he didn’t love me, he instead said he was going to love me for the rest of his life but things were not working out and he wasn’t very happy. That first time, after 1 month of no contact I decided to text him and we went to dinner the next day and got back together, and after 9 months, he did it again (for the second time, which was this year, 2012, and my story).
Like I said, I was super sad, and I cried and begged a little this time, but of course nothing worked. I then said, this is it, no more, he doesn’t appreciate how great I am and if he wants me back then he will come by himself, not because I am chasing him. All my friends knew how sad I was, and one of my best friends told me I had to read this great book that was going to help me so much not only with this situation but with everything in my life. Of course the book was The Secret. For some odd reason my sister had it already, so I borrowed it.
From the very first time I read it I started thinking that maybe it is true that I attracted this breakup again. I was always thinking he was going to do it again, he was going to hurt my feelings again, that he one day might find someone whom he liked more, etc. and I said, well, if I attracted this, I can attract him to my life again. My friend had told me about the book to find happiness, to ask for someone who really cared and loved me and who was not doubting like my ex was. But, I loved and missed him so much that I just wanted to attract HIM again.
Just like The Secret says, I started with simple things. I said one day I wanted to see a deer because I haven’t seen one lately. Sure enough, I saw one next day. Then I said well maybe seeing a deer is not that hard, I want to see a baby deer now, and, 2 days later, I saw TWO baby deers. I was so amazed, and I was always thankful for bringing those things to my life.
I said I wanted to see a rainbow, and the next day someone posted a picture of a rainbow on Facebook. I did not specify how, I just said I wanted to see one and there it was.
So, I went to something harder… I wanted to eat my mom’s lasagna that I didn’t eat for around 3 or 4 months. Two days later she was going on a trip and she texted me “I left you lasagna in the oven.” There is when I said, wow, this is really working and I was shocked.
So I started writing a journal, I thanked God and the universe for everything I was happy about in my life, and I wrote how I wanted my relationship to be with my ex. I also said the first day he was going to contact me was August 29th, 2012. I created a vision board with pictures of us smiling, and some other things I want to attract. I also put some things in a bag that were at his house and I had to bring with me when we broke up, so that when he came back to me I could just grab the bag and take it to his house again. I got a chain with a cross and the word ‘faith’, which helped me when I was doubting sometimes. I would say to myself he will be back, everything will be ok and we will be happy. I put all of our pictures in my room again, and I slept every night with a teddy bear he had given me.
After he broke up with me, he contacted me twice, just to see how I was but he never brought up the topic. After the first time he contacted me was when I applied The Secret. Well, August 29th came and nothing happened, BUT, I never gave up. I always said maybe the universe thinks another day will be better and I am ok with that. I had written on my journal that we would go on our first date on September 1st, and get back before September 12th, and that the first place he was going to take me out was Olive Garden.
Well, September 1st was gone, and I still had nothing but again, I never stopped believing. On September 4th, HE TEXTED ME! We talked about our lives and then he brought up our relationship. He told me he was sorry, he did not know why he decided to push me away and that he wanted to take me out to dinner to talk about things. When I asked him where he wanted to go, he said Olive Garden, and I was thinking again WOW, this is working.
We went to dinner and talked, we decided to take it “slow” … he will show me how much he is really willing to do for me and if he really wants to be with me for sure.
Then yesterday was our second date and it was amazing. He couldn’t stop looking at me and said many times he was so happy to have another chance, a THIRD chance. He is being extremely sweet with me and I am so happy. He asked me last night if he could call me “his girl” again, and I said yes. So, sure enough, we are back together before September 12th, which was the date I set up.
I am extremely happy to be working with The Secret in my life. I feel positive and I want to share this great knowledge with many people. DO NOT STOP BELIEVING, always know that it is on its way, no matter how hard it seems. Do not give up.
I wish you all the best, and always believe that your dreams will come true!