My story began in December, three years ago, when I first met B in London. He came down to London for a holiday, and we had an amazing conversation. We continued with this friendship with a long distance relationship. We met again in NYC in April, spending the best ten days as a couple.

Sadly, after the holiday, we broke up because I was very insecure and negative about this long distance relationship situation.

I was very pessimistic in every conversation I had with B, and it took a toll on him. Let me tell you a bit about B. He is the most positive guy I have ever met! He never had any negative outlook on anything, and in fact, he even told me that meeting me was the best thing in his life and that he had never wanted something so badly. Still, that wasn’t enough for me! I became so upset when he did not spend much time FaceTiming me.

I felt my world collapse when he finally sent me the break-up email in May. I tried to beg him to reconsider this but he had been hurt and too upset with me. We both knew we were soul mates when we started dating. I just knew in my heart he was the GUY for me. I felt I couldn’t move on and started researching on the net how to get my ex back. It was just a crazy few months till I realized that I needed to stop and look inside myself. Maybe there was a reason why this breakup happened, and I needed to take this journey to learn about myself.

I discovered The Secret and read a story from an amazing lady named Jessica, who posted her Secret story. She created a group with other ladies who had a similar story and would like to practice the law of attraction to get back with their ex.

It was very difficult for me in the beginning to understand The Secret and the law of attraction concept. I did the journal writing every day and was being positive but I realized I was still not feeling good. I even tried yoga and meditation. All this while, me and B were still FaceBook friends. I realized I was still holding on to him, and finally, in December, I removed him as my FB friend. I told myself I had to let him go and that if we were meant to meet again, then we would do so someday.

Fast forward to a few months later. I was busy traveling the world for both work and personal reasons, and I even started going on dates, but something always felt missing despite my letting go. I sent him a birthday card, and we started e-mailing, but it was very platonic. As I was planning to make a career move, I wanted to know if B still had the same feelings for me again. At this point, we had already had some email exchanges for three months. I wrote a heartfelt email telling him how I had felt the last 17 months after we broke up and how I was sorry to hurt him and take him for granted. When I wrote that email, I told myself I would have no expectation of the outcome.

Exactly two weeks later, B replied, and everything that I had always felt for the last 17 months was answered. B wanted to talk to me again and said he missed me. He said he always knew something was missing, even when he went out with other girls. He has never been happy since we broke up. He said he was just lying to himself because the truth was he had given his heart to me a long time ago! It was also funny for him to tell me that he was upset when I took him off my FB, and he was always trying to check on my profile.

He came down to London for a week to visit me, and I went to visit B in Seattle for Xmas and New Year. And on the 24th of December, B proposed to me at Lake Union on a very beautiful sunny day. I said yes and our wedding has been set for the summer in July. We both can’t wait for the big day as it is the testimonial of our faith with our love story. We want everyone to see us as an example of how if you have faith, it will move mountains. Sometimes, it takes time to make that happen, but never ever lose that hope.

Love
Naveena