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Expecting The Ex To Come Back But..
Submitted by: Kartika M.
Bali, IndonesiaMy name is Kartika. I am Indonesian and a 20 year old female. I am currently a college student in semester 5 studying Information Systems. I love traveling and enjoy reading books. I know about The Secret from my mother since I was in junior high school. The Secret has really helped me to change my life.
I was expecting my ex to come back but what came next was much better than him.
This story begins when I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up in December 2022. The next three months were difficult times for me. I felt that I had no passion for life anymore and could not carry out any activities without crying. I was so full of regret and felt so bad for what I had done to my ex-boyfriend that he finally decided to end our relationship altogether. Until mid-February, I was still begging him to fix our relationship, but he insisted that he didn’t want to. I felt hopeless and so wanted him back.
I knew about The Secret from my mother since I was in junior high school. The Secret has really helped me to change my life. At that time, I kept hoping and reading all the stories on The Secret website about getting back together with an ex. Once I prayed the Three Hail Mary Devotions as I am a Catholic, for 9 days straight with a wish that we could be together again. During that time, I kept hoping, praying, meditating, and scripting and I even wrote an email to the Universe so I could get back together with him.
I had done everything well except for an important key thing which for me was the most difficult thing to do. That was to detach from the outcome and let it go. I was aware of this but I did find it difficult to sincerely let him go with an open heart. What happened to me was I became so obsessed with getting him back.
I finally felt so tired. Then I tried to accept the fact that our relationship was over. I tried not to expect him to come back and buried all my desire to be with him again. At that time all I wanted was peace and the ability to let it go. I also prayed the Three Hail Mary Devotions again, this time with a wish that I could let it go and accept it. During that time, I went to spend time with my friends.
After that, it didn’t take long for me to let him go. I didn’t want him anymore. I realized that I would be better off attracting someone new who was better than him. Then I wrote a script in which I thanked the Universe for my dream boyfriend. I visualized the story in detail with an expression of gratitude as if it had already happened. I also wrote an email to the Universe about the criteria for my ideal boyfriend. I loved to imagine it, it felt so real!
March was such a magical month for me! After I felt so desperate from December to February, in March I finally started to get close to the boy who is currently the love of my life. That boy was my crush whom I first met at church in 2021. I used to be his admirer from afar, watched him often at church, and never had the chance to get close with him. Back then, talking to him was only necessary for certain things and I couldn’t joke with him as I joke with my other church friends.
Plot twist, it turns out that I am my crush’s crush! He had never shown any interest in me before. Turns out he used to like me too and thought that he wouldn’t be able to be with me. We never expected this, and we still find it hard to believe! It is such a miraculous and shocking reality. We have now been together for 5 months and there is not a day without being grateful for each other!
Then I remembered my email to the Universe that contained 46 details about the criteria for my ideal boyfriend. When I checked, it turned out that my current boyfriend met 44 of those criteria! Now I am happy with a lover who loves me and is always grateful for me!
Hopefully, this story can be an inspiration and hope for those of you who are struggling and are in difficult times. I am sure, what you are going through right now will pay off with abundant happiness and dreams come true. The key is trust and letting go! May you always have a smile on your face, love in your heart, and peace in your soul!