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Effortless Love Desire.
Submitted by: Lina H
spainI am a 35 year old women who had applied The Secret in the wrong way in terms of love.
First of all, I want to thank Rhonda for sharing The Secret and The Magic with everyone who wants to believe. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I will focus on this story because it is the one that tortured me the most.
I had always attracted men who never fully wanted to stay in my life. They would all leave me. But then I met my soul mate. Everything was going well until one day he decided to leave. That day I started to wonder what I was doing wrong, and why he did not want to stay with me. And that was when I realized that I was pushing him away because of my negative thoughts. I decided to read The Secret and The Magic to myself, and I started to give thanks and feel gratitude. I realized that what had happened to me was a gift to use to improve myself.
Then I thought about what I wanted. I wanted a future next to someone, I wanted to share my life, I wanted to live together with someone, and I simply wanted to share my happiness with someone. With someone wonderful. Then it became clear to me that I would never be able to have a future with anyone if I did not believe it myself first. So I got down to work.
I started to take care of myself, to study more, to do more sports, to go out with more friends. I also started to act as if the man of my life lived with me at home. I sent myself love messages from him. I kept phone calls telling him how my day had gone. I would put a plate next to mine. Every night I would say goodnight and every morning I would give him a kiss to say good morning. I said thank you every day! It might seem a little far-fetched but it made me keep my faith, stay calm, and also to let him go. If it was not going to be him, then someone else would come into my life, I had no doubts because I knew at last that what I wanted was to grow old with someone and be very happy. If at any time a negative thought came to me, I would say to myself, that is a lie, I’m living happily with the man of my life. To sum it up, I actually acted as if he was living happily next to me.
Then one day, I wrote my ex an email and thanked him for my new beginning. He replied that he missed me very much, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and he would do anything to make us happy!
The law of attraction, if you stop struggling with it, works all the time. We just do not realize it sometimes. I recommend that if you have a breakup, love yourself. Then someone will come along to complete you, but first, love yourself.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank you for everything.