I am deeply deeply grateful to Rhonda. Since reading The Secret, The Power and now in the middle of The Magic, I have changed so so much. Life was so hard at times, and I would be so down felt so weak as a person. But Rhonda’s books inspired me, changed me and empowered me into a person who loves life, and loves everybody and sees the good and bad in all of life.
I met a man and since our first meeting it was as if Divine intervention happened. It was so spiritual, so amazingly connecting, I never ever in my whole entire life felt such a spiritual connection. Since the time we met, we would talk, see each other, go away on vacation, do all the couple things. I never ever knew what happiness was till I met him. He is the most amazing man I have ever witnessed, and I have met quite a few men in my life. He is so so good, such integrity, such humility, strength, charm and charisma and so so kind in every way and the most fun person I have ever been with. We love each other so so much and feel a connection made by god himself.
I cannot describe to you our connection as only the two of us can understand how pure and deep it is. He was divorced a year when I met him. Two years into our relationship, his ex wife who divorced him, wanted him. I was devastated, broken down beyond anything and hurt in the most horrible of ways. I could not eat or sleep and had cried and cried. I had a traumatic painful divorce and for years had dreamt of a man like this, now all of a sudden his ex wife wanted him back in her life. He has three sons who adore their mother, and a huge family. He loves his sons more than life itself, I have never seen a more devoted father. Although his sons are older and two of them have girlfriends of their own. The two of the sons are very superficial and never thought I was good enough for their father. Yet I never once acted badly towards them, was always loving and giving to them and their father.
The boys and the family put huge pressures on my boyfriend and so he went back to his ex wife so that the family would be happy. He is no cliche, he truly wants to sacrifice his happiness so that the family is intact, whole again. He had known his ex wife for thirty years and met her when she was 19, and felt too much guilt not to try with her as she was the mother of his children and asking for another try. His entire family kept putting so much pressure for him and in the end the thought it would be easier on his family and so broke up with me. He cried and was broken hear-ted and I could feel his pain. It was not easy on him at all.
So we broke up, yet no matter how we tried to stay apart, our connection was so strong something would always put us in each others path. I had always used the dragon fly as my symbol of hope. Whenever I saw a dragonfly I would always hear from him or meet up with him. He always has been there for me for anything in my life, and always been there to help me or guide me with such sincerity, kindness and integrity.
I had lost my job a few days ago and had to get in touch with him as I needed advice and was scared being a single mother. He came running to me the moment he heard, gave me all kinds of advice and is helping me in any way he can to find a job for me and to keep comforting me in a positive way. Telling me not to be afraid, that he was there for me always and would help me get through this period and help me find another job.
Yesterday as I came home from grocery shopping. On my lawn and nobody else’s , I saw a swarm of dragon flies, hundreds, so I stood in the middle of my lawn not believing my own eyes. They were just on my lawn and everybody else’s lawn was still and quiet. There were so many that they hit my body time to time, I just was in awe and just couldn’t believe my eyes. I said to myself the intensity is so great , but I did not believe anything would come about it . I thought to myself, this means I will see my boyfriend, but kept saying how could that be possible. I just spoke to him the other day and it did not go well as I was in a self pity mode and was a little distant, when he was trying to cheer me up. Later that night I kept thinking this means I am going to have an intense meeting with my bf, but then kept having doubts as it was just a coincidence.
I went out to see my gf who just had a new baby. As I left her house, I got a call from my bf asking me how I was doing, that he was worried about me etc. I told him I was okay and he asked me if I was home or not. I told him that I went to visit my gf and her new baby. He asked me what town she lived in. I was in his very town not far from where he lived. He told me he was just mins away and had been driving home from somewhere. What a huge coincidence, he then told me to stay put and that he would pick me up. We went for a drink and then a long walk, it was such an intense night and we both talked candidly, there was so much emotion, we both had tears in our eyes as we missed each other so much. He said he loves me dearly and that not a moment goes by that he does not think of me, but that he is torn between his love for me and his family, that he is lost and does not know which way to go, as he does not want to hurt either of us.
We hugged and cried and the love was so pure between us, we had such a magical night, and then he walked me to my car and we both went home. I have never felt so loved in all my life, and I know that the dragonflies came to me so intensely for a reason, and that my night with him was so intense pure and sincere. I have never ever seen that many dragonflies, and I know with all my heart and soul, they came to tell me that every thing would be okay , that I would have abundance with this man, that the universe would unite us when the time was right. I had always hoped for a sign a miracle, always came to The Secret site to read the uplifting stories to help me believe. I know the dragonflies were my sign from the universe, and I know I will be with him someday in the right way.
Thank you Thank you Rhonda for The Secret, The Power and The Magic. I have transformed my life, my outlook in every way because of you and feel such gratitude for so much in my life, and mostly for my beautiful son and this beautiful man who is so good and kind . I thank god for The Secret, it has been a blessing to me in so many ways. I pray for all my secret families who write here and read the stories, may you all be blessed with abundance in life.