Don’t Focus On What You Don’t Want.
I had known this guy for a while and had always had a bit of crush on him, but through bad timing and other girls getting in the way nothing happened for a while. Last year we started seeing each other but it soon fell apart and he started seeing another girl.
I spent a month obsessing over what went wrong and why would he pick this girl. Who was she? After I had to meet her, it only got worse.
I had discovered The Secret a while back but never really put it into practice for long enough to see results. This time I decided to fully commit, so I read the other books as well.
I slowly realized just how much attention and feeling I was putting into this other girl, which would only bring her into my path more and more often.
I finally began to focus solely on my happiness. I would focus on the good things about the time I spent with my guy and completely blocked the other girl from my mind.
What happened within the next week of me doing this was a miracle.
He went from ignoring me to making an effort to say hello and apologize for everything, which had never happened before.
We then began spending more and more time together and within a very short amount of time began to see each other again. Only this time I was truly happy and had a positive outlook on the relationship and things have never been better.
Needless to say, I am the only girl in his life now.