Change Of Perspective.
I had been in the most amazing, fulfilling relationship of my life for the past 7 months but my anxiety and negative feelings took over. Just as I and my partner were working through the issues and everything seemed okay, he decided it would be best for us to have a break.
It was a very difficult day for me. Before that happened, I was having anxiety and a panic attack over issues at work. I never imagined that my boyfriend was going to ask for a break, just when we were starting to understand each other better. We had just had a good week together as well as plans for the weekend ahead. I assumed that my negativity finally took hold of me. The conversation was awful, with lots of yelling and tears on both parts and things did not end well that night.
I decided I needed to change the horrible, negative feelings after such a dramatic day. I started feeling positive and remembered how much love and appreciation I had for the love of my life. I went to see him and he was very calm and even relieved to see me. We arranged to meet the next day.
We had the most amazing morning. We talked for three hours, like never before and then we had breakfast together. I was just amazed at how everything felt like it was in the flow and how well we communicated our feelings and perspectives of why we were hurting. Even though we had still not gotten get back together, we changed the heavy, negative energy to love and gratitude for each other.
He dropped me at home and then I just distracted myself and enjoyed my day. Then suddenly I got a surprise message from him, telling me how glad he was that we could talk and how peaceful he feels now. Then he thanked me.
I am so grateful for the teachings of The Secret because now I feel whole, limitless, and full of gratitude and love. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.