So like many others, I had met the man of my dreams! He is so great, handsome, smart, funny, a wonderful father to his two kids and so generous with every thing he has!

Stress came from everyday life for both of us and neither of us were appreciating each other like we should have! A breaking point came for my guy and he decided to slow things down between us which quickly turned into little to no communication at all.

I thought I would die! I became depressed, went through three different emotions every single day. Hope, then anger, then sadness. It just kept repeating itself. It got to the point that I made myself sick with a headache that lasted for 6 days. I knew I was in pain because of the stress and depression. I had to relieve the tension to get better.

Then I remembered The Secret. I had read and watched The Secret years ago. I thought this could really help me. So I bought the book and watched the video again.

I began with positive thinking and gratitude!

My headache was gone the next morning.

The rest of the results were slow at first but I was still dealing with my emotional triad! The first inspired thought I had was after days of practicing visualization, positive thinking and gratitude. I decided to ask him to a movie via text! I was so excited and nervous to do this.

Funny enough he said no! However, he went on to explain that he had dinner plans with his family and needed to work on a water pump for his car. You see I didn’t care that he said no because I was grateful for the communication. It had seemed like forever since I had had anything from him! He also said maybe next week?.

Now a few more days went by and nothing was happening between us. I began to get more discouraged. I asked the universe for guidance! I had another inspired thought! Sign up for The Secret Daily Scrolls! This kept me from getting down on myself! I began writing 100 things everyday that I was grateful for, thought of positive affirmations for myself, created a vision board (so did my 8 year old) and walked the gratitude walk in my community. No it’s not always easy but I know that the universe will give me what I am asking for!!!

So guess what?

He texted me! We went to that movie that week. We discussed how to make things special again! We went slow and did it right! We make time for each other, we tell each other how much we appreciate our relationship and the other person. The love we share is so amazing and we are so much happier together! Our family is whole once again! I practice gratitude everyday and make sure the people in my life know how much I appreciate them!

Thank you for letting me share my story!!!

Many Blessings,
Val D