Appreciation & Gratitude Work Like Magic!
To start off I want to say thank you to everyone who posted stories on this site about relationship restoration and love.
On December 26, 2014 what started off as a fun night with my boyfriend ended up with me in the hospital because of a car accident with his co-worker and me having to literally break into my boyfriends apartment because I was locked out after returning from the hospital in the middle of the night.
I do not want to get into specifics because the details are lengthy but ultimately what ended up happening was that the association where my boyfriend lives, wanted him to vacate his condo that he had paid for in full with cash and just spent a lot of money renovating it.
We were both devastated and I knew there was going to be a relationship breakdown at that moment. My boyfriend was so upset and didn’t want to speak to me, he was of course still in love with me (we had already been together for a year at that point) but I literally messed up his entire living situation. So from then on we had a few talks and he ultimately ended up blocking my number and also he blocked me from sending him messages on whatsapp. I was devastated but deep down I knew this situation would resolve itself.
I had been practicing LOA for about 5 years now which is how I met him and I also knew that months prior to this event, negative thinking was starting to creep in. My boyfriend travels a lot around the world for work and I was starting to feel insecure about our relationship, which ultimately manifested that negative situation on that night we broke up. Since I knew I had the power to bring positivity into my life I immediately began practicing gratitude and appreciation for everything that was going well in my life and as well as for my boyfriend, even though we weren’t even speaking at the time.
On February 22nd,2015 I felt the urge to email him and he was actually very happy and in good spirits. He told me he was on a business trip in Colombia and that he was thinking about us getting back together because he still loves me. I knew LOA was working. In all this time I tried my best to just let go and let GOD handle this because it was so big that I couldn’t possible fix this on my own. Fast forward to March 9th, 2015, I emailed him again and he was very cheerful and happy to hear from me.
Today when I woke up this morning, I had a missed call from him, voicemail, and a message from him on whatsapp!! I was in shock because things had gotten so bad that I was just hoping for closure in our relationship. I have yet to even ask him about his Condo but I’m sure things worked out in that situation because he hasn’t brought it up at all.
When we spoke today it was as if that situation never happened. We talked about how much we missed each other and when I told him “I love you” he said “I love you more”.
All I can say is DON’T EVER GIVE UP! Literally all I did was write gratitude lists and I didn’t even do it every day only when I was inspired to. Also, the few times I emailed him I wasn’t trying to control the situation I just said things like “Hey how are you” and ” I hope you are doing well”, “I love you”, general statements. I wasn’t trying to win him back in the emails I let the universe handle that part.
It took a little over two months but I got my man back and I know things will be better than ever. I will make sure to practice gratitude often and I know better than to think any negative thoughts.
In a way I am glad this happened because I needed to find myself again and be the confident, loving, positive girl that he met and fell in love with. I just want everyone to know that things are always working out for you no matter what “reality” looks like. I hope my story helps many of you attract your loves back! Thank you and sorry for the long essay post but I didn’t want to leave too much out.