In March of this year my boyfriend of nine months broke up with me out of the blue. I was so in love with him, we had so much in common, and he told me that he loved me almost daily until this one day he told me that it was over. I had been a believer of the Secret for quite a while before meeting him. I was happy and care free, and then life took over as it does and I lost sight of me. I became immersed in him, and I am certain that was the big reason behind our breakup.

For months I cried myself to sleep with the wanting of him. I never did call or contact him first. I dove into meeting other men, I read books on how to get him back, and in the meantime he was still occasionally calling me. One day I just got so angry and told him to stop contacting me. I said some really mean things to him in an email.

Then I got online and got back into The Secret. I read stories on here and I kept a daily gratitude journal. But, I was still trying to find ways to make him want to come back to me.

Then after listening to The Secret audio books for the 15th time, it all just clicked… I had to completely – and I mean 100% completely – let go. The Universe knew what I wanted and was wiling to give my relationship back to me, but I was getting in the way. I was looking for ways to make it happen faster. I wanted it back when I wanted it. The thing is, it took 4 months. In that four months my ex had decided that he really wanted to be with only me. I had also decided that I wasn’t going to allow anyone to hurt me the way he did. One month after I sent him that email, I came across it in my sent messages folder. I re-read it and found that I had said some really unfair things to him. I emailed him a short apology for the things I said, and he started to email me and call me in constantly. It took only two weeks after that for him to tell me that I was the woman he wanted for a lifetime. We will marry soon and start working on a family in March.

My life is blessed. Let the Secret do its job. Ask, Believe, and you will definitely Receive!!! It might not be right this second, but you better believe it’s coming to you! So get busy with other things! Get busy making you happy!