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Asked For My Ex Back, Got Someone Better Instead.
Submitted by: Ana S.M.
RomaniaA shy girl who is on her journey with LOA and who wants to understand it better and better.
Hello, everyone!
I first want to thank Rhonda Byrne and her team for giving us such wonderful books! They really are great tools for improving one’s life, and I am sure that there are lots of people in this world that have been helped by Rhonda’s books, just like me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Now let’s see my story. More than a year ago, my ex broke up with me out of the blue, saying he didn’t feel the same for me anymore and other such things. I was devastated. I just wanted to die and get rid of all the suffering. My life was a mess, I really don’t know how I made it through 2018. I felt sad and miserable and desperate. I wanted that guy back, it didn’t matter what it would take to have him back, I really wanted him back. I felt like I could never be with someone else. I could never have such strong feelings for someone else. I wanted him and only him. I felt like my world ended when he left me. My family and friends were worried about me and told me to move on because I deserved better than that. That period was quite dark for me but despite all these things, I managed to go on with my studies and finish the academic year with high grades.
After a while, I had an awkward conversation with my ex and that discussion made me feel a bit uncomfortable. That was the moment that I really let go of him and I knew deep in my heart that I deserved someone better. My ex didn’t seem to know what he wanted.
I suffered again for 3 days but after that, I decided I should stay positive, no matter what was going to happen. I knew I could go on without him for the first time in a year. I listened to a lot of music in order to be in a good mood and it certainly helped me. I got in a better mood.
This is when I started talking to my current boyfriend. I kept thinking that maybe I should contact him first, but I was too shy to do it. Meanwhile, I forgot all about it and minded my own business. One day he had sent me a message. I knew I had manifested it with the LOA. I wanted him to contact me first and I believed it, then I let it go, and then he contacted me!
Now as I’m typing this story, we have been together for 2 months and everything is going really well. They are so far the most beautiful 2 months of my life! This guy really has all the qualities I wanted to find in a guy. I even wrote those qualities on a paper some time ago, but I forgot about that paper, I think I even threw it away at some point. But what matters is the fact that this guy ticks all the qualities I wrote on that list. He is indeed wanted I wanted and I’m so grateful that the Universe has brought this guy into my life!
As for my ex, I wish him all the best. He contacted me randomly 3 weeks ago saying he just wanted to talk to someone, but I didn’t really care. I’m finally fine with us being just friends and nothing more.
Thank you again, Rhonda, for helping me improve my life, you’re truly a blessing to this world! Thank you to all the people who have shared their stories so far and to the ones who’ll be sharing their stories. And to everyone out there going through a similar situation: If you want your ex back, that’s fine, you may get him back, but you may also get someone who’s even better for you, who knows? Go on thinking that you’ll get your ex or someone even better and that you won’t settle for less than you actually deserve!
Much love to everyone!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!