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Universe Won’t Let You Settle For Second Best.
Submitted by: Sara
IndiaI am God's little girl, always protected, completely unconditionally loved by Him and his beings. My aim is to bring love and more love into this world.
Dear team of The Secret, I owe a big thanks to each and every teammate of yours. Over the years you guys, your work has helped me in seen, and unseen ways, to go through my journey more easily and with tremendous faith. I also thank all those who kept sharing their stories over here as they motivate millions like me and inspire us to not give up on our dreams, on love and life and on our faith in Divine. Thank you, so so so much.
Now my story relates to love. I fell in love young and hard. The moment I saw him at age 16, I knew we were in for a long haul. Intuition doesn’t lie and we both fell for each other like there was no turning back. The affair was grand and we sailed good times and bad times together. However, being the kind of girl who’s in-for-life-or-out, it hit me hard when after three years of our relationship he announced he won’t be marrying me in the future. I was in love, unconditionally and I couldn’t just leave like that and him alone, so I continued our relationship. That was in 2010.
Over the years many ups and downs came, and I tried my best to be honest, loving, loyal and kind to him and he did his best. But in 2014, during my final year, my brother asked me to ask him for commitment. I was scared, as somewhere I knew what his answer would be. I knew my brother would go to any extent for my happiness, break anyone’s face, but I didn’t want him to be harmed. When he told me he did not see his future with me I was broken and I broke up unwillingly and collapsed.
I still tried my best to help him move on, I was there at his side, though I won’t deny I was cold and hard with him at times. Eventually, he decided to move on in Feb 2015, but we kept in touch. Sometimes he would say he wanted to be with me all his life, and sometimes, the same old, I can’t, I won’t be able to. My friends hated that I was doing this, for being there for him and his family, and they thought I was being foolish. May be I was, but I kept following my heart and didn’t give up.
Now, another year and half later after I prayed hard to God to please let happen whatever is for our best, we had a long discussion and he stated how pissed off he has been for not being able to answer me, and how it’s best for us to separate. He said he’ll always be there as friend, but he can’t offer me a relationship or a future.
I know what you must be thinking, that I got pissed. But no, I didn’t. For the first time in a long time, I realised he’s not the one. And perhaps, I am not the one for him, that’s why he can’t take a stand for me. It didn’t work out but I am so glad I tried and I have no regrets as I now move on almost 6 years after being told by him that a marriage won’t be there for us.
You know guys, sometimes, Universe prevents us from being with the person we love. Because though we can’t see it yet, they’re not the best match. Since I tried my best and I am sure he did his best, today I am able to move on without any regrets for the past. I am peaceful. I tried my best and still it didn’t work. It means Universe has someone else who’s the best one for me. And for him, too. As a matter of fact, for all of us.
So people, never get discouraged from failed relationships. Whatever happens, it’s for the best. Have no regrets, no complaints about yourself or the other person and move on in life as life has a greater, bigger plan for all of us. And forgive, because forgiving is a weapon, it’s that truth that sets us totally free.
Lots of love,
The luckiest Girl