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My Dinner Date.
Submitted by: Irene K
An optimistic girl.
This might be lengthy but am going to try to keep it as brief as possible. I want to thank Rhonda Byrne and the whole team of The Secret as well as the people who post their stories here.
In January of 2015 I set out goals I had to achieve before the year ends and the major one was a job and a soul mate. I really wanted to settle with someone who really loves me for who I am. My birthday is in June, so I asked God to provide my soulmate before my birthday. I wrote all the qualities I wanted in my soulmate, from what he should look like to his age. I gave all the possible details and believed that he would come around.
As months passed by I started to get desperate as all the people I was coming across did not match the person I wanted. So to help me keep my faith, I asked for signs from God that my partner would be with me before my birthday. My first sign was a person with a tattoo on their right upper hand. Mind you, tattoos are not common here because they are taboo here and anyone with with them is considered to be spoiled or a lost cause. I had gone to visit a friend and when I was leaving, I saw a guy with a tattoo on his right hand. I was so happy and I knew my Prince Charming was on his way. But as time shifted and still no one I could relate with showed up, my faith started wavering again.
To keep strong, I asked for another sign. This time around, a tough one. So that if it happened, I would b sure that he was going to come around. I told God I wanted to see someone dressed exactly like me, from head to toe. After two days I was on campus and saw a girl but from far away. She had the same color pencil skirt I had only mine was longer. She had on a denim jacket too, like the one I had. I had not taken it seriously but then a friend told me that she had seen a girl who was dressed just like me! Mind you, I had not told any of my friends about my sign! I was so happy and I knew my guy was on his way. So I kept the faith and no longer had any more doubts.
On 30th of May a guy contacted me and he said he got my number from a friend’s phone. He had seen my Whatsapp picture and he was attracted to me but feared to ask for the number as his friend might not have given it to him. So literally, he stole the number! We jazzed that whole night and every thing clicked. When I asked his age, he told me he was 27 and that’s the age I wrote on my list! He is an optimistic person and we share a lot in common.
Today we had a dinner date. He told me to choose a place of my choice but I told him to choose instead. He picked me up and we went to cafe Javas. The main reason why this stood out for me is because on my way home, there is a branch of Javas that I pass by and I would see people enjoying themselves and smiling. I kept telling myself I would one day be seated there, but with a special person. Whenever I passed by, I gave thanks for the place, as I loved the view.
Today is that day I always gave gratitude for. I had dinner with my guy and he was the one who chose the place without even knowing that I had always wanted to go there. I am so sure he is the one and I have no doubt about it anymore. We are still dating and getting to know each other but I am convinced he’s the one. He loves taking one step at a time and I am waiting for that time he will make it official.
My birthday was on the 10th of June and I am happy I got my soulmate in the time frame I had set out for myself because it took me 6 months to find him. So for anyone who is seeking for anything, all I can say is be as specific with what you want and focus on that, it will manifest.
Also, about the job. I got a job I will start to do in January, which is perfect timing for me as I am finishing my school in December. I can’t be any happier because my job is already waiting for me. Have already written down what I want it to be like andI am sure it will be exactly that.
Thanks everyone for reading and I hope it inspires someone.