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Out of no way, a way was made!
Submitted by: Noelle
Miami, FL21 year old grad student
Iâve never had problems in my love life. When I was younger I used to date around, because deep down I knew I was loved and therefore other people were drawn to this as well. After my last break up however I was completely crushed. I had moved across the world for this guy, weâd been together for almost two years and I felt really lost and alone. Moving back to my country and starting over was probably the hardest thing Iâve ever had to do, and I had a period of feeling very low.
This is when I pulled out The Secret from my bookshelf, and started applying The Magic to my life. At this point, Iâd had a man in my life for almost four years that would always some how come back at the strangest times. He would come and leave, always breaking my heart but I guess not hard enough to make me stop believing we would one day be together. When I went on a weekend trip to visit some friends and ran into him, I felt it was fate. We had a nice weekend, and so I was convinced that this guy was the perfect partner I had tried to attract for the last two months. However, things faded with him as they always do.
At the same time I had started to get to know a guy in one of my classes and he was wonderful, but things never really went further than some flirting when we saw each other.
So here is where I made a mistake in my order, which complicated things for me a bit after. I had asked for the universe to bring my first guy back to me, and I had at the same time asked for my perfect partner to come along. I was convinced they were the same person at that point, and so I didnât understand I was complicating things.
However, when both my first guy started showing more interest and the guy from my class got up the courage to ask me out, it made me very confused. Confused because I had such a good time at my dates with guy #2 but it was hard to let go of the other one since we so much history. So I asked the Universe for an answer, and that is exactly what I received.
My old guy had promised to come visit me that weekend, but of course last minute he bailed. I felt so angry, and for the first time in four years I felt strong enough to tell him how incredibly bad heâs treated me, and end the relationship. So that is exactly what I did. He took it bad, said some terrible things, and after that I realized the man I thought he was doesnât exist and I was much better off without him.
The next day I went on a date with guy #2 and it turned out to be such a good time. Weâve been dating for a few weeks now, and I am starting to really fall hard for this wonderful man who is everything and more than I asked the universe for. I have realized that I should trust God to determine who is right, and when itâs the right time to bring him into my life. I needed to mourn my old relationship, realize the other guy was not the right man for me and only then, when all this had happened, did he bring the right man into my life. And now I can honestly say I am happier than I have been in many many months.
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Rhonda and The Secret team for teaching me the control of my own life and the wonderful outcomes that can come from applying LOA into my life!