You must believe, then you will see
I was introduced to The Secret 3 years ago when I was about 19 years old. I knew right away that this was the reason why my life had so many positive things in it. Without really realizing my whole life I was using the law of attraction with every subject except relationships. I never had felt that I was good enough for people and I spent most of my life people pleasing. Sacrificing my own happiness for others and thinking that just being nice I would eventually find someone who would like to take care of me.
The Secret came to me through a guy friend, he would listen to the relationship problems I was having with my boyfriend and would tell me that The Secret would help. After much resistance on my part to read it, I finally did and I’ve never been so happy in my life. To read that I actually have control over everything in my life by just thinking and believing was amazing. I was struggling a lot applying The Secret to relationships because I was worried about the hows. How could I possibly get something like this? How does it work? Instead of just, believing! But I did ask for a few things to fix my relationship with my mom and to find out the truth about my boyfriend.
In time my life had rearranged itself. From the day that I read The Secret until today I am a different person, a happier person. Not until today did I realize it was all made possible by The Secret and The Power.
I have realized that although pleasing other people feels good, it should never come at the expense of your own happiness. The people who have left my life within the past couple years were all negative people that I had attracted with my negative thinking. They had all fallen away from my life because they were no longer on my frequency. Don’t get me wrong, everyone has their spells of negative thinking and they will happen. I have had one recently where I have lost “the man of my dreams” because I was too worried about getting hurt and thinking he was going to hurt me or disappoint me. I pushed him away before he ever could. But I have faith with the law of attraction, that everything will turn out just how I imagine it.
I am a believer because The Secret has changed my life. I have fallen in love with me, which in response made me fall in love with life.
I hope my story inspires you. I know all of yours have inspired me in the times I needed it.