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You Can Have Whatever You Want In Life.
Submitted by: cV
New YorkA believer of The Secret!
I wanted to share my story on this site to serve as an inspiration for anyone who is patiently waiting for “the one.”
About four years ago, in 2011, I met the man of my dreams in medical school; he was everything I could have ever wanted in a soulmate and I fell in love at first site. I knew he was the one and I was so hellbent on winning him over. We spent the next 6 months together, and then I had completed my basic science education in school and came back to New York to complete my clinical rotations. Being apart was very hard, but we made efforts to meet during every school vacation and kept in touch via Skype/ whatsApp etc.
As time went by, I became increasingly suspicious that he may have been “fooling around,” and that indeed was the case. I was so devastated and after about one month of not communicating, I gave in and we resumed our old pattern of communication.
Long distance makes everything complicated and I believe we had a few more arguments/fallouts over the same issue but finally in April 2012, we became bf/gf! I was so happy and felt so grateful. But low and behold, I felt something was wrong around September 2012. Every single time I felt “weird,” I always stalked and concocted extravagant stories in my head which became so implanted in my thoughts, and these eventually manifested. So as you might have already figured, we broke up that September. I was so devastated but we reconnected in January 2013 and although we weren’t bf/gf, we always had a great time.
Whenever I “let go,” things were wonderful, and whenever I felt “psycho” or uneasy, things went astray. We had one more fallout in October 2014. I wanted to get married but he did not want to commit. I left his apartment that night in tears and I thought this was it, this is the last time I will ever see him again.
Today, March 2015, I want to tell you all that we have reconnected and that everything is wonderful.
I read The Secret and realized that I must act and live life as though he is already mine. The five months from October to now were really hard for me, but I loved this man so much and I could not forget him.
I am happy to tell you all that The Secret does work! Erase all your doubts and believe! My perfect man and I are looking at engagement rings and I am so happy and beyond excited. We’re going to get married next year and I cannot thank the universe and God enough!