You CAN and DESERVE it!!!
I first encountered The Secret almost 3 years ago, but I’ve always been a dreamer and never been scared to dream big! Since I was little, I always know what I want. I saw myself getting accepted in the schools that I wanted, living overseas, having a freedom living by myself, meeting my right guy, and having a successful career!! I can proudly say, I have achieved almost everything!!! 🙂
Even though I dare to dream big, I grew up in a rather negative family. My mum and I are very close but we had this love-hate relationship, mostly from my side. My relationships with my dad and younger brother were so far from harmonious. I had a few close friends but was never popular. Therefore, I was very relieved when I moved to Sydney and I was determined to create a new me!
With all the negativity around me, I became a stubborn, sarcastic, stingy person with very low self esteem. The pattern was: I would have this beautiful dream, kept thinking about wanting it, not feeling confident at all, and then gave up. I would tell myself that I’m not worthy enough, I wouldn’t be able to do it, and anything I could think of to bring myself down. Amazingly, with all this negativity, I still managed to make my dreams come true!! I went to all the best schools in the area, I moved out of home during my undergraduate study, and then I came to Sydney to get my masters degree! I trully didn’t know how these dreams materialised but I know it’s definitely not luck.
Now, with Mr Right, he’s actually the one who made me discover The Secret… by breaking up with me 🙂 I was in a huge shock but hey thanks to him I knew what’s been happening in my life! I changed my mindset and enjoyed many manifestations, including the return of my boyfriend 🙂 My Mr Right was also attracted to me by The Secret. I wrote a list of qualities and descriptions of my dream guy and he came along, having almost everything on my list. The ones he didn’t have, started to appear after we got together in such magical ways 🙂
The effect of The Secret was temporary to me though, as I became lazy and took things for granted. I guess I was just skimming through the book and didn’t fully connect with the principals. So yes, everything I had was taken away from me. Mr Right left too. All I can say is this one was an eye opener. I seek solace in The Secret dvd and The Power book. The life changing moment for me is reading The Magic, it puts me in the positive frequency without fail.
When you’re in the right frequency, you’re leading yourself in the right direction. Little by little everything became clear and revealed itself to me. Having lived for over 25 years with destructive way of thinking, I often lapsed back into a worrywart so I know that first things first, I have to work on myself. I write a gratitude journal daily, I say affirmative words to myself (fake it til you make it!), and I work really hard on my self confidence. Once I trully believe that I CAN get whatever I want, I knew I was ready for all the greatness that’s destined for me. But then again I would look down on myself, am I worthy for my dreams? So I added, I CAN get and I DESERVE all the happiness in the world. This put my heart at peace.
Right now, I’m at the top of my life and will continue to. I genuinely accept, respect, and love myself like I never did before. I can feel the inner calmness knowing that yes, my dreams are my reality. I got a new job effortlessly, Mr Right and I are back together effortlessly and now have a strong, happy relationship, and we are going to this beautiful resort that I’ve been wanting to go to!!! My relationships with my family, friends, and God are fantastic. I think with my heart and the results are always the best! 🙂
Whatever it is you’re trying to achieve, focus on it. Don’t bother to listen to those who say otherwise, only you that decide whether you can and deserve it or not. Declare that it’s yours, because it IS yours 🙂 God loves you, God is ready to give it to you.
Thank you so much Rhonda and all The Secret teachers. My heart’s filled with warmth and happiness whenever I watch the dvd or read the books. I wish everyone joy, love, and eternal bliss 🙂 Thank you.