Truly and utterly believe the Universe!! :)
First of all, I want to say a thank you to all the people who post their stories here. They are truly inspiring in a way that we can relate to them and find a hope for ourselves.
I was in a long-distance relationship with this amazing guy for more than a year. Everything was going on really well. I used to feel very lucky for having him. I was like, “This is it! This is what I want for the rest of my life.” He had even proposed me for marriage. It was all fairy-tale like.
And then after 14 months of being with him, I started feeling negative about him, about me, about us. Everything started going down. One day I out accidentally (which later occurred to me, was not an accident, it was intended by God) logged into his email account and found out that he was getting married to some other girl.
My world was crashed that evening. I had never felt so helpless in life – it felt like everything was over, nothing good would ever happen. In spite of confronting him, he kept on lying, giving lame excuses. He created a situation where he made me believe that he was just a victim and that his family forced him into doing this. He lied to me till the very end. The day he spoke to me the last time, I accidentally (again, thats what I believed) logged on to The Secret website and read all these amazing stories here. This gave me a tremendous hope that yes, I can have him back.
I decided to wait for him. I started to apply the law of attraction, and trust me, its not all that easy in the beginning, but you have to go on trying. After about 5 months, I started to have faith and truly started believing. I started to force myself to be happy in order to stay positive. I started believing and hoping and praying. It was 10 months now. I kept on wondering, “Why is it taking this long? If I am so true to my feelings, so sure of what I want, why so long??”
I got the answer last month. It was because I kept on asking for someone who absolutely did not deserve me. He had lied to me all along. He was never forced into anything. He did all this by his will. I was extremely relieved when I found out the truth about him. It felt like now I could absolutely see everything God was seeing all this time.
I learned two things from this incident:
1. If anything bad happens, the good thing to pick out of it is the experience made you learn important things in life.
2. Whatever happens, happens for a reason (a reason which you do not know yet) and happens in your favor… always.
Never lose hope. If things are not happening according to your wish, just truly trust your higher-self. Things will absolutely fall in place with time.
And always remember, the best is always yet to come… Always! 🙂
I had an amazing support system all along, my parents and my friends, whom I cannot thank enough
Keep going on… 🙂 🙂