There are no negative situations!
There were two things I wanted to manifest: a slimmer figure and some new clothes.
One day when I was in River Island, I saw a really beautiful skirt, but it was £30 which was too expensive for me at the time. Since then, every time I was in River Island I’d try on the skirt to remind myself how it looked/felt when it was on. As far as my figure was concerned, I started to really appreciate and admire my body, and every day before I got dressed I would take time to notice how beautiful it is.
Eventually, however, I started to get a bit frustrated- weeks went by and my money always seemed to just disappear every time I’d saved almost enough for the skirt. I’d been visualizing like crazy, so I didn’t understand why this was happening. It was difficult, but I managed to reassure myself that I’d soon have enough money.
I noticed a change as soon as I did this; just before I went out with friends today, my mum gave me £30 as a thank-you for helping round the house. When I went into River Island today, the skirt was in the sale and was down to £15. I was excited- until I realised that they didn’t have it in my size. I decided to try it in the next size down anyway, and found that it fitted perfectly. Walking out of the shop, I realised I’d received both the things I’d asked for- the skirt, and a slimmer figure without changing my eating/exercising patterns.
Remember- although it may seem like you’re not getting what you asked for, or bad things are happening, they may only be leading up to something good. If I’d bought the skirt earlier, I’d have paid twice as much and I wouldn’t have realised how much weight I’d lost. Things which seem bad at the time can really be a blessing in disguise; they’re just a consequence of the Universe leading you on the best path to your desires.