On a day of love and romance – “Valentines Day” -I kissed my wife goodbye while she left for work. I ran out to do the things most do, to prepair for her return. I went to pick up the flowers and jewelry I had ordered, and to confirm my dinner reservations. What I did not know was she was not going to return home. She had met someone at work and decided to move on in life. While I thought everything was good and strong, it was not. I fell to pieces and my heart and life were shattered. I wanted to end life and not live. My son’s picture saved my life, because I was about to do something that would of ended it.

My sister had told me about “The Secret”, and asked if I had seen the movie or read the book. I, like most people, let it go over my head, and soaked in misery for a few weeks. I was calling anyone who would talk on the phone. And was desperate to vent to anyone and everyone. I eventually heard of “The Secret” again. And again – a few times. One day I decided to do a Google search and Yahoo search to find out information on “The Secret”, and I was led to thesecret.tv website. I ordered the DVD Movie.

I watched the DVD every night for about a month. It made me feel good. It put me in a positive frame of mind. I started slowly practicing “The Secret”. I went to the book store and purchased the book and started reading it daily and, I still watched the movie. It all started comming together. I noticed I was out talking to people about The Secret” and making new friends. I was positive and noticed that people actually liked me. This helped me cope with my seperation and upcoming divorce in a positive way. It gave me hope. It gave me a strong positive personality. I was attracting all kinds of people who I would enjoy conversation with.

I knew I wanted to meet someone and have someone special in my life. I started visualizing. I started to tell myself that she was already there. That I already know her. One day I met someone online at a local dating site. As we started emailing each other I found out she had actually known my ex wife and her boyfriend. Her kid played with my kid at the local YMCA. I never met her in person. But I kept in touch with her all the way till my divorce finalization.

I have to tell you when we finaly met it was very good. I felt i knew her and she told me the main reason she kept in touch with me is I was positive and she felt I was a good guy. The strange thing was everything I was asking for was there. She had all the qualities in a woman I wanted. She was very attractive. She wanted everything I wanted. It was like a magnetic universal attraction. I introduced her to “The Secret” and shared the movie with her. She was blown away and said she knew she was doing it but did not know how or what it was. We are in a nice relationship now and I am very happy. There is life after divorce. And I’ll be the first one to tell you that “The Secret” can help you cope and deal with extreme emotional pain and get through anything.