The Second Time Around
For quite some time I’ve been coming to this site on a daily basis and reading everyone’s stories, they are very uplifting and very inspiring. They help uplift my spirits when sometimes I’m in doubt. Thank you all for sharing.
I had always told myself one day I would write and share my story with all, just like you have. I was just waiting for the right time to share my story and today is the day.
The Secret has helped me in many ways, has changed my life in many different ways but more importantly has gave me a better understanding to life as far as my thoughts, how I am in control and how I can make things different. Anyhow, I kinda got side tracked.
Last year Summer 2012 I was introduce to a very handsome man by my friend. During that time I was going through a hard time accepting the fact that person who I thought was meant for me, was really not the one for me. When I got introduced to this man there was a mutual attraction I felt that right away. We dated for about a month, I liked the way he treated me…such a gentleman. However, at that time I would think of the other guy how I missed him, I would find myself comparing them how different they were from one another. One day when I met with the handsome man we were at his house and after I left that day I never heard from him again. I had no idea what had happened?
I now know it was not a good timing because I was not ready, my mind, feelings and thoughts were elsewhere. I had to come interms with myself to let go of the other guy, to understand the fact that we will only be Friends…a very genuine and sincere friendship. It took me a while to finally let go…to heal..and to move on. Nowadays, I am more accepting to that I have NO feelings for him. Myheart is ready to love and be loved!
Three weeks ago I ran into The Handsome Man again at an afterparty. I had not known anything from him since the summer. This second time around it’s different…I feel him different more genuine, I’m at a different place more importantly I know what I want and I am not confused anymore. I like alot of things of him, the way he is and the way he makes me feel. Him coming back into my life has a meaning and I know things will workout.
Keeping and staying in a positive state of mind is imperative. Certain things are necessary in our life, so that we can have a better understanding, so we can accept and comprehend our surroundings in our life. I have many stories to share of how really our thoughts attract certain situations, people, things and etc… All things the good, bad and ugly. Before I had no clue, after reading The Secret and The Power everything has becomed so clear, its amazing!! I am very grateful for The Secret. I still have a long way to go but the key is being “Aware” once your aware you have a Choice.
Ask, Believe and Receive!!