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The reality about ‘DONT’

Submitted by: Divya Kaur

New Delhi India

A 29 year old who lives by her dreams and is very grateful to the universe for her Family , Husband , Friends and Work

I am 29 years old and always considered myself very lucky. Things would always fall into place for me. When I finished my post-graduation I got into a company that I had never head of but the basic requirement of the company was that the employee should be open to travel. Travelling has always being my passion. I want to see world and enjoy luxuries of the world. For 4 years I travelled to lot of places, stayed in best of hotels and to top it all, loved my work and the customers we were interacting with.

I am the kind of a person who never got tense about life or money or people, for me everything and everybody was good. However in 2007 on one of my projects things went really bad and I was forced to take the blame of the failure and to top it, my reputation in the company was demined by linking me with a married man, which was absolutely against my values I was really Hurt. I went to India totally dis heartened and in depression. For months I was taking pills and sleeping all day and skipping work. I lost my flat as I didn’t pay the rent for 2 months (it’s not that I didn’t have money, I was in some other world) losing my flat forced me to shift to a friend’s house who was kind enough to accommodate me.

My friend was a big follower of The Secret and use to watch the DVD at least once a week. It is there where I got introduced to The Secret. I then started looking back at my life and realized that whatever good things I have ever wanted always happened as I was in a good state of mind. It took me couple of days to re adjust myself and put myself on track.

God has been very kind to me that I have been gifted with the best parents in the world who have been very supportive in whatever I do. It will be a lie if I say that I apply The Secret every day but I try and do that as often as possible and 99% of the time I get what I have asked.

I would like to share a point here where The Secret says the universe doesn’t understand the word ‘DON’T’. I am a living example of this!

All my life I would say, “I don’t want to get married to a Software engineer, I don’t want to stay in Delhi and I don’t want to marry an Canceren.” Guess what  … I got married to a guy last year who is a software engineer, who stays with his family in Delhi and who is a pure Canceren . So I guess the Universe did listen to what I said just without the DON’T ( lol). He is a nice human being and as The Secret says, “be appreciative of what you have.” I thank God for a good husband.

I am currently in a position where I’m going through some turmoil in my life, but I come to this site every day to ensure that I read your stories and keep my spirits up so I don’t give up on my dream. I might have lost the path a little bit but I am sure I will find it again and make my dream come true.

Thank you all for sharing you stories.
Ps: Please remember the universe doesn’t understand the word ‘DON’T or Doesn’t ‘ and I’m telling you that out of my own experience. Talk only about what you want not what you don’t want.

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