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Perfect Husband Found Me
Submitted by: Barbara
PolandI was always dreaming about the perfect father and husband.
My father left my mother when she was pregnant (two years after marriage). When I was born, he did not even come to see me. My mother and I were both living with my grandmother. My childhood was quite happy, but there was a secret longing in my heart… I wanted my father to come back to us.
It happened when I was 10 years old. Was I exhilarated? No, I wasn’t. My father was drinking heavily. I think some of you may know how it is… Sometimes I wanted to run away, but I could not leave my mum with him alone.
I had a boyfriend for a long time, but he was not the perfect man for me. There was something wrong with him… something what made me feel unsure… I cannot describe it.
I was thinking that my life was full of disappointments and troubles, that everything went wrong. Then I realised, that there must have been something wrong with me. My friends always had what they wanted, so I started to ponder over this fact. I asked myself, “How is that possible?” The solution was so easy… I finally found out that I just had to think in a positive way! I promised myself to change my life. I dared to dream!
I created the picture of the ideal man – his character and appearance. I had it on my mind all the time.
It was autumn. The sun was shining and I was in a very good mood that day. I was coming back home from the university. Some circumstances caused me to come back home by another bus. Then I saw him standing on the bus stop. This was just like a flash of insight… When we get off the bus he came to me and shyly started the conversation. This was the beginning!
Later he told me, he was observing me for some time and he was dreaming about me, but I was with another guy. I could not believe that! A year later we were engaged.
That was my husband who told me about “The Secret”. He was using the key of “The Secret” to attract me. I realised that I followed the same rule, however, I made it unknowingly.
Now I feel fortunate. I have a loving husband and wonderful parents-in-law. My mother is really happy and she loves my husband as if he was her own son and my grandmother is very proud of him. I do believe everything will be all right, and I do believe “The Secret” can change the life of everyone.