My life was spiraling out of control.

The job I used to love was now a nightmare. My boss suddenly became very controlling, belittling and made me feel like I was overpaid where before he used to really value me and I felt appreciated. The one guy who used to adore me suddenly turned cold and acted as though he didn’t have any feelings for me and that I had imagined it all? I was living pay check to pay check and my weight just kept going up on the scales regardless of the hours of exercise and calorie counting I did.

Basically, everything was a mess!!!

I re-read The Secret, The Power and The Magic but I seemed to have missed the MOST important part: Letting go!!!

I would ask for what I wanted and I visualized it but my one mistake was that I KEPT asking for the same things over and over again. What I didn’t realize was that by doing this I was telling the universe that I didn’t truly believe I would receive these things and hence nothing changed. It took me ages to work it out (I know, I know).

One day the penny finally dropped and I worked out that I needed to do the following:

1. Be clear on what I wanted and ask for it.

2. When asking for it, feel like I’m ordering off a menu and know that what I have ordered will be “created” in the kitchen of the universe and it will be brought out to me shortly. Order with certainty and confidence.

3. Now leave it. Forget about it. When someone orders something from a cafe, you don’t place your order and then worry about not receiving it, do you? You also don’t continually place the same order with your waiter while you wait for your meal just to be sure you receive it. No you don’t. You have 100% faith that what you have asked for will be given to you within a reasonable time.

THIS is The Secret ingredient to getting what you want.

I used to keep asking for the same thing and worrying about it and getting upset/angry/anxious when things didn’t seem to be happening. And guess what? I never received what I wanted.

Since making this change, I now have my dream job, I am making a lot more money and I’m really happy as I now have a great boss. The guy who pushed me away came back to me declaring his love and stated that he used to be afraid of his feelings but he wasn’t anymore. We have a great relationship and he tells me that he loves me everyday.

Also, my weight just seems to be melting off me, yay!

By releasing everything and simply knowing that whatever I order off the menu of life will be given to me so there is no need to worry about it, I have really turned my life around and I’m so, so happy!!!

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!