Manifesting has been for me a journey of mostly finding self love. I’ve learnt self love, gratitude and finding my true authentic self is the answer.
I have read The Secret, The Power and The Magic. I also practice a form of Buddhism where you chant the lotus sutra while thinking of your needs and wants. I truly believe our desires lead to enlightenment as we learn through the manifesting process to have gratitude, to love others, not to judge and the true satisfaction of success to share with others.
What have I manifested:
I was unhappy in my job role and I was using my chanting, meditation and The Secret techniques to find a role. I was made redundant. I couldn’t find anything. I was also trying to manifest a new car. A Ford Focus. After a while, finding no job, I decided to do a temping admin role part-time to pay the rent while I looked.
After 4 weeks at my admin role I was offered national sales and training manager- no interview. Which yes, came with a car! The cars for the company were generally Hyundai. Yes, mine arrived the new Ford Focus!
I sold a house while it was off the market. I took it off after not being able to sell it. Then I started using The Secret. The agent called and said someone that previously viewed it would like to see it again. Yes, it sold. Quick sale. I was manifesting to afford to live on my own. Same day I got the offer on the house, I had a friend of a friend with an apartment in the city who gave me ridiculously low rent to house sit for 2 years. Swimming pool just as I had visioned!
I always say my dream life would be to spend our winter in Europe each year in the European summer. This year I manifested just that. 3 months on a Greek island at a friends villa. Someone I met out of the blue who I became friends with. I came straight back and fell into an amazing job role. Like it was made for me. 5 bedroom house to sit on my return, just as I had asked. I tested the process with asking for a 5 bedroom home to see if it would work, as 5 bedrooms is a little unusual.
Soon as I got back my sister said a lady at her child’s day care needed someone urgently as their house sitter had pulled out a few days ago and they are travelling in a few days.
The list of what I have manifested would be pages and pages. Free coffee table, places to live, business class tickets back from Greece. Most of all the relationships in my life are incredible. I’ve changed difficult family relationships and transformed the most negative tendencies in my life.
What I wanted to say in all this is how I’ve done it.
Gratitude, gratitude, gratitude.
Support and loving others.
Letting go and forgiving everyone.
Taking responsibility for my actions.
Meditation, breathing exercises and visualization.
Writing strong intent sentences.
Chanting for me helps with the release process – although find something that works for you.
If I am struggling to attract something it’s because I’m making “it” my happiness. I must be happy NOW.
Release the hunger or need, somehow. Distract yourself from thinking about it.
Trust the universal energy. I’ve found working with a manifesting/meditation coach helps me with techniques to release and keeps me focused.
I’ve found when in a state of gratitude and happiness all I have to do is think of something and it comes to me easily but the point is getting to that place of peace.
Spend time in nature, go to a laughing group which creates a huge release of endorphins. Be silly, watch a kiddies film, switch off the news, do something nice for someone you don’t know, help others, maybe an elderly lady at the supermarket, pay for someone’s coffee. Get into the good vibrations.
I’m just like you on a journey. If I can do this you can too.
I’ve gone from severely depressed, attracting bullies and negativity, to vibrant, healthy and in control of my life in 3 years. Step by step. Small things to bigger things.