Smile and the world smiles with you…
I guess I have always looked at life positively, having grown up happy and healthy. Well, I have had a blessed life, a mum that loved me through my teenage years, and then being a mum myself.
But I asked myself, Where did it all go wrong or right? I had my share of unsuitable relationships, that left me with insecure doubts, but I always had faith, and always said I would never regret anything that had made me smile.
Forward a few years and I am now divorced with three of the best children in the world. I look back and it was not a negative but a positive situation, as I have my children who I adore and who also adore me. I helped heal my sick ex-husband through numerous trips to the hospital after he was diagnosed with cancer, and so far he is doing well.
But last year when I could not ‘cope’ I watched The Secret and realised I was not looking after me! Everyone else said, Debs will always cope, she always does, and hey presto, I had forgotten the golden rule. You have to look after number one, but in fact you are the infinite number two, you are not in charge or responsible for anyone else!
Fast forward to now and I have a great family and a new man who loves my positive outlook to life. I ask myself if all my dreams and wishes will be granted? Yes, sure they will, because I am always positive and feel good about myself. I thank The Secret for giving me that nudge.
P.S. I would love to give others that positive vibe, but you know we all have it, we just have to look deep inside of ourselves. xx