So I wanted to see my ex again. It had been almost 5 years since we last spoke to one another, and for some reason I really wanted to see her again. I decided to give the Secret a try. Let me make it clear that my ex and I parted on bad terms and severed all contact with each other, which is what makes the following so amazing to me.
I began doing a simple visualization. Just my ex in front of me and us talking. I did this (off and on) for about 2-4 weeks (or longer, I kinda lost track of time).
Then one night I got the urge to go for a stroll down by the water. I think, “why not”, and go out. While I was walking I suddenly heard someone call out my name. I looked up and, to my great surprise, saw my ex sitting by the water looking at me.
I go and talk to her and she tells me that she had been sitting there looking at the water, lost in thought, when she suddenly got the urge to look up. So she did, and consequentially, saw me. After talking to her some more I found out that she had been thinking of me for a while.
It is my belief that all desires are connected: one person wants to love, another person wants to be loved; one person wants to fight, another person wants to be fought; one person wants to make money, millions of other people want to give money (generosity, purchases, etc.).
It helps me to remember that, no matter what I want to have, be, or do, everyone else wants me to have, be, and do it too.
So good luck, and thanks for the support… whoever you are.