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Return of True Love
Submitted by: Sam R
DhakaNew believer in 'The Secret' who is blessed with true love
I want to start by thanking Rhonda, her team and all the believers who shared stories here. During the lowest point in my relationship the stories shared on this site gave me the hope to carry on.
I was in a relationship with the most amazing man in this world. I always believed that he was the one for me. Sadly we did not share the same level of enthusiasm. He was in doubt due to his commitment phobia. I am a positive person by nature and I kept fueling the relationship during hardships. Nonetheless, in the last few months we suffered a lot. I started doubting about the future too. Negativity took over my mind and I became frustrated. We were arguing almost everyday and he broke it off with me on 13th August after a huge fight.
The moment we broke up I had a hard realization how much he meant to me. I was badly heartbroken. I decided to compose myself and reflect on life. I pictured myself as my role model and listed down all the changes I need to make to be the person I want to be. I prayed to God for his blessings. I cut off all contacts with him for a while and the decision became easier as he flew out of the country for a month.
At this point I remembered a friend mentioning ‘The Secret’ and how it changed his life. I never took an interest when I heard about it months back. I found ‘The Secret’ and ‘Science of Getting Rich’ books and started reading them. I was so motivated that I bought the DVD the next day. I started reading stories on this site. Suddenly I felt very confident and hopeful. I made a vision board with timeline and posted pictures of everything I want in a year. I wrote down all the good memories from our relationship and all the qualities I like in my ex. I wrote how I want the relationship to be and thanked God for giving me what I asked for. At the same time I kept praying on regular basis and improved myself as a person.
I must admit that there were days when I felt down. I missed him too much. He did not contact me at all and I was wondering if he had moved on. I was afraid if I raised my hopes too high just to be disappointed later. On these occasions, the stories on this site helped me keep going. I was also becoming more and more confident as I progressed as a person. I was certain that with my improvements, any man would like me and want to be with me.
To make a long story short, he did come back in my life and that is too around the time I mentioned on my vision board! We went for dinner last night and he was WONDERFUL. He told me how much he loves me and promised to make this relationship work. We met after two long months and I was on top of the world. My prayers came true. Thank you God and Universe.
Remember to be the person you want to be and appreciate yourself. The world will start appreciating you. Love yourself and the world will start loving you. Pray and believe and you will get whatever you want. I found somebody when there was no hope and it seemed impossible. You can make it too!