I came from a poor family, the eldest with 4 siblings. I was sexually abused at the age of 16 by an old man who helped to feed my family for a couple of years. Having been traumatized in my life, my love life was also a failure. I got married at the age of 28, to someone of my parents choice and had 3 children. It did not last but I did love him a lot in those years.
But I always felt I was a failure until I watched The Secret.
When I was 36, my now, ex husband was still around then. He always abused me physically, and broke my right ear drum broken. Those days I had put up with him because I was worried that I could not survive without him.
But everything changed after The Secret came into my life. I had been prepared to put up with him for the children’s sake. However, he chose to step out of the house and the four of us left all by ourselves.
I had undergone many obstacles in my life during that period, I had to work and take care of my kids, school, cooking, etc. My children were, 10, 8 and 6 respectively. The one and only that kept me moving forward was The Secret. I never valued me before, but I then started to love myself. I fought for my rights, filed for divorce and took my children’s custody. He couldn’t even be bothered about the kids.
Over all these years, I lived a positive life which was a great turning point for me and my children. Now I’m a mother of 6 children with a lovely husband!
I watched The Secret with Chris, he loved it and our life is even better because we have the same understanding.
Currently, I’ve chosen to keep my mom with us. She was thrown out from her own house by my brother. Mom use to hate me because when I asked her why she had to pretend she didn’t know that I was forced sexually by the old man whom helped us financially back then. She had denied it altogether and I was very upset when she asked me to follow him to another town when I was only 16. She said, “I never knew he would behave like that with you”. She sent me with him for 2 days.
Anyway, years passed, and I felt so much hate her. But The Secret has taught me to forgive and forget. I did see her eyes fill with tears at times lately, while talking to me. But I’d rather not speak out about anything and just focus to move forward and live the fullest in life now.
When I recall those things which I had portrayed wrongly in my head, such as rich people are snobbish, we are poor people, everybody is somehow doing something wrong and if a good thing took place, there must be something bad behind it, etc. I realized these thoughts were mainly planted up in my head since I was young.
I have now changed my thoughts through The Secret!
Today, I have a beautiful complete family with my mom, 6 children and a great husband.
My only current expectation now is that the agreement of my business with the appointed distributor must be done in the next 24 hours. Yes! by 2015. It was suppose to be done 10 days ago. I know I will be in joy, even if it has to be the last minute. My strong will power is saying that I will achieve it, and I am waiting for the good news to arrive and ready to receive it.
After this success, my family will be in complete happiness, joy and with financial freedom. My aim is to share with as many people in need out there, and to give a helping hand to make a little change that will make a big difference in their lives.
Last but not least, I’m talking to as many people as I can to make them understand The Secret and change their lives for the better and learn to love and to give love, care and share, have happiness and joy!
May the joy be with us.