When I read The Secret I didn’t think about the new car I could get or weight I could lose, I wanted to be funny and beautiful. I would try every night ways to use The Secret into making myself be a better person. One day on the bus I was talking to my friend and she announced to me that she hated how people would refer to her as annoying. I then recalled the hundreds of times my friend had called her annoying, either as a joke or being completely serious. I then realized that I had being focusing on the lie that I was ugly and serious. I from then on, saw myself and talked of myself as beautiful and everything I want to be and therefore am. I now have an amazing boyfriend and a lot more friends.