Perfect timing for my perfect partner
I first came across The Secret and the law of attraction 4 years ago, while in the middle of very toxic relationship with a man who was not suitable for me at all. Unfortunately, I was the only one who refused to see how badly he took advantage of me, I was ignoring my gut instinct, trying to shut it up, despite developing severe leg pain without injuring myself in any way. I was receiving treatment for this leg pain, but had not much of the progress in terms of pain relief until I left the relationship and crawled back up from the depths of depression which I denied to be experiencing to everyone who would ask or suggest so.
The movie was passed on to me by on of the spiritually evolved ladies who lived nearby, and I was hooked! Obviously, I was told to stop dreaming and kidding myself while still with this man, but when I moved out and got my head together again, I decided to put together my perfect partner wish list, as I never lost hope in finding a good man.
It was pretty extensive list and pretty specific too, like being similar height to me, slim, musical, witty, good cook, willing to commit and meet my family, arty, focused, willing to pamper me and receive pampering, loving my body and my mind, supportive about my personal growth,…the list is pretty long.
Well, fast forward 17 months in which I learned how to trust people again and come out of my shell, become funny and warm, as I always supposed to be, he came into my life like a flash.
It still gives me goose pimples, when I think back about it all!
I was invited to friend’s wedding, only to find out that I was scheduled to work that particular weekend. However, my kind boss told me to take the whole two days off, because she overbooked staff anyway. So off I went and got myself really nice outfit, felt like a million dollars wearing it, just to be told by my date for a day, that I looked fat on the way to the wedding reception! I was so shocked and upset, that it took me two glasses of champagne to calm down and realise, that this man, as well, is no good for me, despite being a lot of fun. He is a nice man, so why he was so callous I don’t understand, but it made me cut all emotional ties I perhaps had for him. I never hoped to love him, or for him to fall in love with me, we just had fun and never hurt anyone as we both were single.
As soon as I emotionally let go of my date, the Universe must had said something along the lines of: “OK, and now look at this one! He has all the attributes from your list, so I can’t do any better than him. So stop being stubborn and just look who I got for you”‘ So I looked.
And there he was, across the room, staring at me, the best man himself, whose speech I just listened to and admired for his wit! Only then I saw him, when I freed myself emotionally and stopped making things happen, just let them happen on their own speed.
The speed of my ‘wish delivery’ was probably less than a minute, actually!!! The Universe just chucked him at me as soon as I was in the flow of things and stopped struggling against the current of life.
And I haven’t looked back since! Everyone comments how happy and well I look ever since this new man is in my life, how I mellowed and stopped stressing out.
Girls are impressed by my chef boyfriend (!) who is amazingly tidy (!) and musical (he composes and sings his own songs, 4 of the latest ones dedicated to me) and he is also arty (sculptor, his medium is wood, and painter of water colours), he pampers me and I pamper him, he is very similar height to me, slim, funny, adores my mind and my body, is committed to me, supports me in my personal talents and we are going to see my family this Christmas.
He really is the best possible man for me, and now we are officially ‘joined at the hip’, as they say in England, being together every possible second we can.
We belong together, so I trust that the opportunity will come for us to move in together, because we belong by each other’s side. No need to stress, just go with the flow of things, because The Universe knows already that we belong together and it will provide us with chance to live and create under one roof. We chose the place we want to live already, so now I am picturing it in my mind, and pretending he is next to me always, that the house I am returning to is our house in the north, where he waits for me with a hug and a kiss ready.
You really get what you wish for, so make sure you wish for the best possible outcome of your reality.
Life really is amazing! Thank you for all those stories that helped me to stay focused in my dark days, thank you for spreading the news of joy and love and happiness, because that is how everyone deserves to live. My thanks to everyone who contributed to this website with their story, because it spurred me on and encouraged me to keep my hope and vision.