In 2017 I had met a guy and hit it off with him very well. I just knew he was my soulmate, my twin flame, and my partner for life. I had been in other relationships that had not worked out. I had started to feel that I just was not worthy. Then this man came along and I thought, finally, I have met ‘the one’. Well, as it turned out, that was not the case.
In the beginning, everything was so beautiful. We spent much time together sharing fun and silly, loving moments. Then somewhere along the line, things changed. He started ignoring my calls and texts. We didn’t see each other unless I brought him dinner or lunch. And every time I told him that I was no longer happy and maybe we should just take a break, he would beg and plead for me not to leave. He would keep telling me that he had a lot of things he had to fix or work on. So I decided to give him that chance.
I started to apply the things I had learned to our relationship to make it better. That did not work. I ended up getting a call from someone I did not know and he told me that was one of his ex-girlfriends. She was not pleasant and told me they were still together. Now, this was 2020 and he and I had been with each other since 2017. I would go to his house during the time we did make for each other, which was not a lot. So of course, I was very hurt.
I decided to take that pain and turn it into good. I just pulled the good from it all and said that I would truly just focus on myself. I prayed to God and the Universe that when it was my time, I would have a mate that would love me as I am and would appreciate me for all that I am. I asked that his energy definitely match mine, the silliness and all.
Well in October of 2020, I met that person. In the beginning, I would tell him that I wasn’t looking for a romantic relationship. I just wanted to work on myself. He said he understood but would love to be friends. For a few months, we would be on the phone until 3 in the morning. Actually, one of us would fall asleep on the phone.
I do not even know when, but we became a couple. He is everything I put into the Universe, plus some. I have never been this happy with anyone. As a matter of fact, we are planning our wedding!
I thank Rhonda and many others that help people understand so much within us. It was all because of what I put out there and asked for, and then let go of. Then it came to me. Not in my time, but during the right time, the timing of the Universe.
Thank you, thank you thank you.