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Out of no how, no way, a way will be made.
Submitted by: L.J
NY24 year old female who never stopped believing and now is living her dream life.
I had been dating this guy off and on for a year. Our relationship was not what I wanted it to be, but I loved him so much I was willing to put up with it. He was my dream guy, someone that was perfect for me, but still something was just not clicking between us. I realized this disconnect was based on my own insecurities.
We ended up getting in a BIG fight and we both said and did some hurtful things. We did not speak or communicate for weeks after. But in my heart I knew that non of that was true and that we truly were meant to be together. It was devastating to me as I was so close with his family and all of a sudden they seemed to not want anything to do with me.
After my initial depression after our break up I decided to take control of my life and mold it to become something happy and positive.
I re-watched The Secret movie and refreshed my memory of the teachings. Every day I wrote in my journal all the great things about him that I loved and appreciated. Every day I visualized our beautiful wedding on the beach and our happy family together. I also put a picture of us happy and laughing on my vision board and looked at it all the time. Things had been so bad between us when we broke up I could not see a way that they would be fixed, but then I realized that I didn’t have to see a way for what I wanted to happen, just that I had to BELIEVE that it would happen. I only allowed positive thoughts regarding him to enter my mind and focused on our love and happiness.
Slowly things started to change. He started to text message me, then we spoke on the phone and then in person. We spoke 3 times in person some weeks apart and then realized that we needed, wanted and loved one another. Though neither of us said anything at that moment we could feel the love between us.
A week later he suffered a personal tragedy in which his mother passed away. He was so distraught and I could feel his pain. We talked and I was happy to be able to comfort him and bring some happiness and positivity into his life in this dark moment. Through this tragedy he realized that life is too short to waste jumping from person to person and that he did truly love me and wanted a family with me. Soon after we got engaged. The ring was exactly as I had imagined it.
We are now planning our dream beach wedding in May of this year and expecting twins! My life is exactly how I always wanted it to be but never could achieve before I learned to harness the Law of Attraction through the Secret.
I am so grateful for everything I have learned from that book and the movie. I often watch the movie or read a random part of the book just to remind me of the things I can accomplish. It so important to just believe in the final outcome. The Universe does the rest!!!