One Step At A Time.
About two months ago, my ex and I broke up unexpectedly. It was because of my unhappiness of the relationship and where it was going that caused the break up. I did not realize at the time how powerful my thoughts were and that the fears of him leaving and the fears of not having him took control and eventually that is what happened.
I was devastated for weeks. Work was hard, and home life was not much better. It was about 2 weeks after the break up that my co-worker told me about The Secret. “It has worked for me, it can work for you too,” she said.
I got my kindle out and bought the book right away and began reading the book. I began taking what the book suggested to do and began rebuilding myself and began thanking every moment of the day, being grateful for everything in my life. Everything began changing, my relationships at work changed, I began feeling better about myself and loving me.
The one thing that I wanted still was my ex to return to me. I would visualize daily of having him back in my life. For weeks, I would visualize and ask and believe, but it seemed like it was going no where. I re watched the film of The Secret and it hit me; I was not feeling the joy and happiness of having him back in my life! I began changing the way I felt about him being in my life and began feeling the love and happiness that surrounded the relationship.
The other day, I went out with a friend for dinner to get my mind right and get more focused. At dinner, I saw this couple who seemed to be enjoying their time together and just envisioned that it was my ex and myself eating dinner and laughing. After that vision, I let it go, and believed it would happen.
The next day, my ex asked to meet me so we can talk. We talked and took a walk in the park where we broke up, but the feelings were happy. After the walk, he asked me what I wanted to do next. I changed it around and asked him.
What he said next made me a true believer. He asked me to dinner! We sat at the table and laughed and talked the whole time. Nothing seemed awkward because I was positive everything would be wonderful!
We are not back together yet, however, I have asked the universe to bring us together as a couple in 40 days. I believe and know it will happen, and I will write about it again in 41 days :).