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Nobody Believed In It, Just Me!
Submitted by: Esther
New ZealandOver many great things, but also hurting things. Looked for understanding in life and believed in a greater power.
I want to tell my story to give strength to others, the same way I have also gotten so much strength by reading these stories.
I had a long and struggling 8 years of relationship with my partner. I loved him, but I really felt that after having 2 children, he was already bored of me, and I only meant for him the necessary raising of his kids. After a long struggle and a lot of crying I left him and moved not far away.
Then I found out about The Secret. It changed many things for me. Suddenly I realized the mistakes I had made in my life, in my relationship, etc. I realized that part of our problem was that I was unhappy, lost and I had been waited to get love from him, instead of loving myself, appreciating my life and things I had. I also understood him more. I realized I wanted him back, believing that our relationship could be now different. Everything went well and I felt great. I imagined him coming back to me and asking me to marry him. Then I realized he moved away together with another women. At that time I then lost faith, and got very upset. But thanks to The Secret I got over this bad period very quickly. Even though everybody told me we were not the ones for each other, I kept believing that we would eventually be together again.
It took quite long, quite a few months, as sometimes I would fall back to my old way. Then I thought about how nice he was, wished him luck with his new women, but also I thought that if he ever wanted to come back, I would be happy to have him. And then I let it go. I felt love and I felt grateful about the time we had together and the children. I got on with my life, and obviously a mum with kids and alone, is always busy. Sometimes we met and I was friendly with him, but nothing happened.
Then one day he knocked on our door. I was shocked to see him there. We did not need to say anything to each other, I knew why he came as I had imagined it before. I gave him a big hug. And we have been together ever since then!
Thank you all, thank you for the stories which kept me believe that anything could happen. I am a different person now.