My husband and I seemed to just coexist in our household. We loved each other, but it had been nothing special over the past several years. We seemed to exist as friends only, but not even as best friends.

Deep in my heart I knew he loved me. But I did not feel as though my husband was in love with me or that he desired me. I use to fill my head with these very thoughts often.

I knew I loved and desired my husband but I became standoffish. I feared the rejection. I loathed the neglect. So externally I shut down and internally I was in a lot of pain mentally. The thoughts and actions of he and I both manifested in a way that was so unreal for a married couple.

Then a client of mine introduced me to The Secret dvd in July of 2006. The first time I watched it I knew that my thoughts and feelings about my marriage had manifested something ugly within my marriage. After I had seen The Secret a few times I knew that a shift in my awareness would change things. So instead of the negative feelings I had about my marriage I began to tell myself that I have a marriage with passion and romance. I began to daily visualize and feel my husband and I in a passionate, romantic and happy marriage. A few weeks later I encouraged my husband to watch The Secret. We actually watched it together. I can honestly say IT WORKS. It is like I am in a brand new relationship with my husband.