My Soul Mate
After leaving my husband of 30 years, I decided to not date for one year. After the year was up, I began to look into dating sites. It wasn’t easy to try and meet men with whom I felt I connected and so, I began to write what it was that I was looking for in a new companion. As often as I could, I would list all the qualities that were important to me.
About two months of diligently writing what it was that I was looking for, I met a man with whom immediately I got along. At first, I put up my usual boundaries, but as time wore on, I realized that I was becoming more and more attached to him, until I finally figured out that I was in love with this man! Much later, I was re-reading what I had written earlier about what I was looking for in a soul mate, and the most amazing thing was that my new love met every single one of those qualities! We are now engaged to be married, something I didn’t think would happen ever again.
Every day I am thankful and grateful that I met him and that I did not shy away from him, nor judge him for his size. He is a wonderful man, and I continue to be eternally grateful to have him in my life.