In September of 2019, I went through a terrible breakup. It was so bad I literally suffered from depression and anxiety. I lost so much weight, I couldn’t sleep or eat. You name it, I was not myself. Even after we broke up we were seeing each other on and off. I would try everything to make him come back. But he refused to get back with me. He would still come to see me here and there but it wasn’t the same.

Months passed and I was constantly drinking to ignore my deep wounds. Not only was I going through that horrible breakup with my ex, but I was also dealing with so many other things that were beyond stressful. My whole world was flipped upside down. I lost my job and had no job for 5 months. I felt so lost and worthless. I felt like nothing mattered.

In August of 2020 I was still struggling. My mom called and told me she found some law of attraction books that were stored away. They belonged to my grandma who passed. She asked if I wanted them, and of course, I said yes! I started learning about the LOA. I even went on YouTube and I found so many inspirational teachers. Jake Ducey, Veronica Isles, and Kim Velez. My life changed suddenly.

I got myself a journal to write my affirmations in. I wrote down things that didn’t happen yet. One thing I wrote down was, “I have a job that pays well”. Then I manifest a job! I literally got one 2 days after writing it down in my book! I have manifested several amazing things.

Finally, I was on the right path to finding myself again. I was happy again and manifesting many things.

I was watching a video from Kim Velez and she was talking about the law of assumption. She said, “Whatever you assume others think about you, you are right!” It hit me that I had been putting my ex on a pedestal for so long!

So I wrote down how I assumed my ex feels about me. I wrote, “He went out of his way to contact me and expressed his feelings to me”. I read it a few times before I went to bed. I kind of forgot I wrote it and just went on with my life.

A few weeks later I was at work, just doing me and feeling so happy. I was literally just telling a co-worker how happy I am again and that I love being single because I feel so peaceful and have no worries.

Yeah, well guess who decided to call me not even 45 minutes later!? Um, my ex!!! He had no way of contacting me as I blocked him on Messenger, changed my number months ago, and didn’t have him on Snapchat. He found a way to get my number. I literally was so mind blown! I had 8 missed calls and a text. So I called him back because he wanted to talk to me.

We talked 3 different times that day. He said the last 3 days he couldn’t eat or function because he can’t get me out of his head, and he admitted he still loves and cares about me. Now he wants to come to see me Thursday, so we made plans and now I get to see him!

So it’s true, whatever you assume anyone thinks of you, you are right. This is so real!! Our minds are extremely powerful. We are capable of anything.  You are the creator of your own world. Thank you to Jake Ducey, Veronica Isles, and Kim Velez!! Without them, I wouldn’t be where I am today.