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My Ex Came Back, Sort Of.
Submitted by: Melly B
United StatesJust a girl trying to learn herself and figure out who she is.
I just want to start off by saying thank you to the Universe and Rhonda Byrne for sharing The Secret and making me a believer. I was introduced to The Secret by my best friend after a break up about 10 years ago. Over the years I always believed it but I never put it to use I guess.
Recently, I met this guy who I completely fell in love with. We had a good relationship then out of nowhere, he started acting weird and saying he was in the zone. I kept nagging him and asking him if there was someone else. Do you not want to be in this relationship anymore? We had an argument and he wanted space. I was devastated. Of course, I still texted him asking him why?
I tried manifesting him back. I did The Magic practices, kept his picture up in my room and would talk to it daily with happy thoughts. The Secret teaches you to think positive thoughts right? Well, at least I thought I was being positive. Maybe 2 weeks later I found out the reason he was acting weird was because there was someone else.
I really loved him but at that moment I decided to stop putting the attention on him and instead I put it on myself. I started reading The Power and still practiced The Magic. I wrote in my gratitude journey about things I was grateful for. I kept seeing the number 44 everywhere so I knew I was aligned. I said to myself, let me test this. I wished to see red roses. It didn’t matter how or where but just to see red roses. A week later I was on the elevator and a lady was holding roses and all I could do was smile. I began to let go. I did think about him a lot but it was mostly memories, our good funny memories. I would think about him apologizing to me and guess what? One day I was going about my business and he randomly texted me and he apologized for everything. Next, I imagined him saying he missed me and guess what? Maybe a week later he told me he missed me.
We are still not back together or how I want it. However this whole situation taught me faith and the power of believing. I still love him but I love me, more. I truly still do feel he is my soulmate and one day we will rekindle but until that day comes I am going to be really loving myself and sending him nothing but positive and gratitude vibes. The key to getting what you want is feeling your best self. Loving you and letting go of the outcome. When I let go and was feeling good, that was when he contacted me. The Power is really inside of you. If you can see it in your mind then you can hold it in your hand.
Sending love and light to everyone.