Manifesting Real Happiness.
Thank you a lot for this website and for all the stories. In the worst period of my life, I was reading the stories every day and they gave me hope that I could also change my life. I promised myself that when I had the life I wished for, I would write my story here to give hope to others.
I was in a 6 year-long relationship with my fiancé and we had only 6 months to go till our wedding. We bought a house together that had to be renovated. There was a lot of work with the house, and our relationship became somehow weaker. He said he always felt tired and he was really fed up with the renovation. After a while, he spent a lot of time with his friends without me, became very rude to me and he started to say that he did not think he wanted the same life as me and it was not a good idea to get married. After a couple of weeks, I figured out that he was having an affair with one of his colleagues. On the same day when I realized this, he moved out of our house and moved in with the other woman. It was awful after he left me. I was in a deep depression for months, I was crying all the time, I couldn’t work, I couldn’t sleep, I couldn’t concentrate on anything else.
Meanwhile, we started a conversation about our common properties, our house, our car, etc. Me and my family had spent a lot of effort to renovate our house and I couldn’t imagine I would lose it, too. I wanted to buy the house, but I had no money and it was really difficult to find a credit construction that could mean a solution for this situation.
I started to go to a therapist, but it didn’t help. Then I visited a Kinesiologist a couple of times. She recommended The Magic book and that was the life-changing point for me.
I understood had power over what happens in my life. I started manifestation meditations, I meditated 2 times a day. I spent a lot of time thinking about all the positive things that I had in my life and thinking of what I want in my life. I imagined that I could buy the house from my fiancé and live in the house happily.
After a while I found a solution for the difficult credit construction. There was only one bank in the whole country that could help me, and I found them!
I also wanted to get back together with my fiancé badly. Then on the day before we had the appointment with the lawyer to sign the contract so I could buy his part of our house, he called me. He was crying that he ruined everything, he said he misses me, we started kissing and made love. Then, later that evening, he went home to the other women with whom he cheated on me.
The next day he signed the contract. I realized that he had been lying to me and also to the other woman. I hated that, but it helped to get over him.
Slowly I felt better and I could move on with my life. I realized that I was happy now, I felt good in my life. Just one thing was missing: I wanted a relationship, I wanted to love and to be loved. I took my notebook with my gratitude list and started a new page with the title: My Dream Relationship. I created a list of the relationship I want to have. I didn’t write features like I want a good-looking boyfriend or I want him to help me more in the household, I didn’t write about him. I wrote about how I want to feel next to him, how I want to see him. I also imagined us together happily at home in my house. Then I meditated and I really felt the happiness and gratitude in my meditation to have this guy in my life and to be happy with him.
On the same evening, I got a phone message from a guy who worked for the same company as me. We started to talk and in a couple of weeks we started dating.
We have been a couple for more than a year now, and we are happy over the moon! He moved in with me and the relationship is perfect, I couldn’t be more grateful to have him. He had the same story as me, he was also engaged in his previous relationship and his fiancé cheated on him. The best thing is that he completely suits every point on my list, what I wrote to describe my dream relationship, every point!
I went through the worst but in the end, I got the best. I hope my story will give hope to everyone. The only thing to do is just love yourself, know what you want and feel deep inside that it’s already yours, and always be grateful!