Manifested Boyfriend And Then Manifested Him Back!
I wanted to share my story, in return for all of your stories that helped me keep my faith.
I am in my late thirties and had never been in a relationship. I had great friends, a wonderful family and a successful career but never found love. I had been wanting that “special person” since I was a teenager. I watched all my friends get married and have kids, wondering what was wrong with me.
My friend who is a great believer in The Secret told me to make a list of all the traits I wanted in a boyfriend. Having nothing to lose, I made a very detailed list of what I wanted, from looks, to values, financial status, interests, down to what his own family members were like. I was extremely specific. I soon forgot the list, not really believing that it would do me any good. A few weeks later I met a man who I instantly fell for. As I began to get to know him, I realized that he had every single quality on that list.
We had a wonderful relationship. It was everything I had every dreamed of for years. After about six months however, I began to doubt myself. We got along great. We never had any arguments and we were always supportive and positive toward each other. However, I could not shake the feeling that this was too good to be true and that he would break up with me. Which was, of course, exactly what happened. There was no messy breakup; one day I just never heard back from him.
I was devastated. He was the most perfect person for me. I felt like I dreamt him into existence just for me. I loved him with all my heart and had complete respect for him. Because of this, I just let him go. I didn’t chase him with phone calls and texts, knowing that would just make me look desperate and lose my own self-respect.
I was still incredibly sad, however, I really wanted him back in my life. At this point, I remembered The Secret, which brought him into my life originally. Admittedly, it was a lot harder this time because I was so attached to him. I set a date that I wanted to hear from him by, 4 weeks away. I visualized, wrote in my journal and did affirmations. I tried so hard to stay positive, even on the rough days.
Then the date came: no message from my boyfriend. I was so angry. I really wanted to believe that The Secret works. I gave up completely. Two days later however, I turned my phone off during a long flight. When I turned it back on, I had gotten a text message from him!! He apologized and said everything that I had been visualizing. I was over the moon. I still am so grateful.
I realized in retrospect that although I was doing all the “right things”, I was still incredibly attached to him. As soon as I let go, all of my wishes came true, similar to how I found this perfect person in the first place. So please, I know how hard it is but just believe with all your heart and then let that wish go so the magic can happen.