Love Yourself First!
Thank you, thank you, thank you Rhonda Byrne and the Universe and all the people who post their stories here on the sit.
Suddenly about 1.5 months back, my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me saying he doesn’t feel the same and started dating a new girl. Initially I was all messed up after we broke up. I was crying every day and night but I knew that it was me who attracted this.
I pleaded and begged him for a second chance. I wanted him to see that I love him but he remained adamant. I thought of every little mistake I made during the five years as the reason for him leaving. I was desperate to get him back. For five years this man was my world and I couldn’t accept the fact that this happened.
After 2 weeks of crying I decided that I need to check where and how I went wrong. I began to read The Secret, The Power and The Magic again. I watched the movie and felt inspired to get him back.
Things changed a bit, he started contacting me again, talking to me and texting me. And yet he said he was not sure if he wants to be with me, why? Because I was again, using all my actions from a place of “needing him” and giving him again the power of my happiness.
Then I read a story on this site about a girl who also experienced a similar thing. But what made her get her ex back was learning to love herself. Letting go and knowing that her happiness rests with herself. It was that day that I decided to learn to love myself! I told my ex to contact me only when he knows what he wants.
Do I love myself? Indefinitely, yes! Do I hate my ex? Nope, I send him my love and gratitude.
I felt inspired to write this story as maybe someone out there wants a bit of hope. Don’t give up but learn to let go! Love yourself! The Universe will give you what you want. Thank you! Thank you, thank you!