The Secret Changed Love For Me
First, I would like to thank Rhonda Byrne and her team for publishing The Secret movie and the book to this world, since it changed millions of people lives in a miraculous way.
I am one of the people who have received my life in a miraculous way. I have been applying The Secret for almost a year. But, it was not in depth and it was on and off. Hence, this mixture of energy caused my life to receive mixed things. At the same time, I stopped loving myself, had lost hope in Universe and let negative thoughts come into my mind.
This made conflicts and fights between me and my boyfriend after a week of dating. We both wanted different things. I was compromising to him but he wasn’t. He paid less attention to me, was not possessive and caring, and he was not romantic at all. He had past issues to deal with his ex-girlfriend. After 2 months, these problems reached to the maximum and we both burst out in anger.
Right after our fight, his parents found out about our relationship. They didn’t approve of our love and made him cut all contact with me. Still, once in awhile he managed to email me. He started to compromise with me but I put a wall up against him because I was very hurt and felt unhappy with him. I started to love him less and thought to myself that we were not meant to be together because fate separated us from his parents. I lost hope in everything and I just wanted to give up my life.
Then, one day, I went to the bookstore and bought The Secret and The Power. I started to read it and realize where my mistake was.
I didn’t love myself, let negative energy take over my life and I wasn’t grateful for what I had. Also, I took the advice of my high school friend, I didn’t message him for a month because of a small mistake my boyfriend made that upset me. I thought to myself that it was for the good. During that one month, I focused on loving myself, being grateful in life and I started to feel positive energy.
I bought a book of visualization written by Shakti Gawain. In this book, it showed how to visualize what you want in life. The techniques to apply, mental visualizations and positive affirmations to bring positive energy and to feel it. Also, with the help of my friend, I Photoshopped our photo into a groom and bride picture. I did a vision board on my Power Point that represents our marriage. I wrote my gratitude journal twice a week and wrote in another journal about things I love about myself.
During that one month, I realized that my boyfriend changed a lot since I did not email him that much. He pays more attention to me, he realizes my value, he is very caring and expresses easily his pain, stress and his thoughts to me.
I won $10,000 in the lottery. I changed my appearance, focused more easily on my studies and increased my social life.
Then, my ultimate dream came into reality. All this time, his parents didn’t even bother to know about me. Then one day, unexpectedly, I met his mother. At first, I didn’t know it was his mother. As we started to talk to each other at the bus stand and we both started to like and appreciate each other very much. Then a week before our sixth month, he calls me to announce the great news that his mom loved me so much that she went to talk about it to his dad and they finally both accepted our love.
On our sixth month, we both went out for dinner. Just like I visualized it, he gave me a bouquet of roses and kissed me on my cheek. While we were eating and talking, he took my hand and gave me a ring and asked if I wanted to marry him. I said yes with all my heart and we both went to the movies to have a wonderful time.
Today, my boyfriend and I are the best lovers, best friends, a wonderful supporters and guides for each other. He is extremely romantic in every way. I finally feel I have done the right choice by staying with him. All I have to do right now is to find a good moment and tell to my parents about my boyfriend.
To every one of you people, if ever you think your situation seems hopeless, just look at how I went through with my lover. Ask for what you want, truly believe it, and feel it as if you have it in your hands. Life is beautiful!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!