Love of my life
I had a bad breakup more than a year ago. I tried using The Secret to make him love me again, but it didnt work, because thats not how The Secret works. According to The Power, trying to change how people feel and trying to change the people themselves wont work, because it doesnt signify love. I tried winning him back through my thoughts until I got tired and just accepted the way things are. I started loving myself. I improved myself, I bought stuff for myself, I began really having fun with my friends, I started really feeling happy for the couples around me.
I updated this list on my cellphone, describing the qualities and family background of the man of my dreams. Haha. I figured making a list of my own after I read the many success stories in this website!
I was suddenly inspired to get a tattoo and so I contacted my friend who also wanted to get one. I watched this movie inspired by a Paulo Coelho book, and at the movies end there was this quote. It was a eureka moment – I knew what I wanted tattooed on my side.
My school organization had this sort of college prom-like event every February and I wanted to go there with someone I really love. And so as early as December I wrote on my post-it, You will have a date for that event. Someone you love. I pinned the post-it on my cork board, then I let it go. I didnt really think or worry about it afterwards.
In January, after a short chain of friends referrals, I and my friend decided where we should get our tattoos done. And so we got to the tattoo artists house, and I instantly fell for him. Oh, he really was charming. He came from a really good family and he spoke English smoothly.
Oh, around this time I also finally deleted the folder in my phone full of my exs messages. I finally let him go. I thought, I cannot start with a new love if Im still holding on to the past. Thats like negating the law of attraction!
He didnt have a clue I liked him. And he didnt really pay attention to me much because he was really a professional and he doesnt try to build inappropriate relationships with his clients. I randomly wrote on my blog something about getting matching tattoos with the love of my life. I was secretly wishing hed be the love of my life. And he didnt have a clue!
Long story short, after one month of my secretly admiring and praying to have him, our paths crossed in this acoustic concert. We shared a couple drinks and stories together. After that night he asked me to go out with him. After barely ten days, were officially a couple. A bit fast for our culture. But who cares?
I specifically swore to myself that next time I will go to this website, it will be to share my own success story. And voila! 🙂 He now tells me how he believes I am the one. I continually thank God every single night for having him. Every day is indeed a miracle.
I am really grateful for everyone who shared their knowledge regarding The Secret. Thank you!