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Love made me positive
Submitted by: Nix
MaldivesI love dancing, drawing, music, and spending time with my love. And also I think positive almost all the time.
I’d like to tell you about how I changed from a negative person to a positive person.
Before, when I just started my teen years, I was miserable about everything in my life. I thought about suicide, cried to sleep most nights, and thought about all that was wrong in my life.
I was also surrounded by negative friends… when I had a boyfriend they always picked up his wrong doings, and how I should be free for myself.
Years passed and I started a new school (lost my negative friends). There I met this positive friend, and I had a relationship going on with also a very positive guy.
But I betrayed him. I was sorry I did it, and he forgave me. That was when I realised what I had done with my life. I fell deeply in love with this guy. He was very nice to me. I read about how to keep him always loving me, and I was grateful for having him. From one of the books I read this line, “The wrong things he’s done to me should be forgotten, over the good things he’s done.” (meaning, what he’s given me will be difficult to return, so I should be thankful for the good deeds he’s done for me)
The sentence and his love for him made me the positive person I am today. I wanted to care about him and love him to the extent no one has ever loved. And now I think I do so.
Whatever happens I trust him, I never ever complain to him, I respect him, I always tell the truth and always thank him for being such a loving guy, and talk always about the good things he has done for me. I never argue, but talk to him if ever a misunderstanding happens. It’s going to be five years for our relationship, and it’s been the best five years in my life.
This is how I am today. I do not think of any person in a negative way, I always count their good deeds, I do not talk about people behind their back, I do help my friends, and strangers too. I forgive, apologize, and thank people often. I always keep a smile. I count my blessings and thank god for giving me the life I have today.
And this is what I found out: “What you give is what you receive”, so if you treat someone right, that’s how he’s going to treat you back.