Love Lost Love Found.
I have been in a relationship with a man for four years now.
Around 8 months back, he decided to call it off. The reason had been our constant fights due to my incessant cribbing and nagging.
All I could do was find fault in what he did and how he did it. If he did 10 things for me, and didn’t do one thing, I would hold onto what he had not done instead of appreciating the 10 things he had done.
This man who had loved me more then anything, who talked about marriage each and every day, didn’t want to be with me anymore. My negativity had created a reality where he wanted to be as far from me as possible.
It was painful. I begged, I pleaded, but he wouldn’t budge.
Then I read the secret..
It changed the way I thought of things. Instead of constantly thinking he was leaving me, I thought of happy positive thoughts. I started being thankful for the fact that we were still in touch, he still cared for me.
Slowly and gradually, the man who had stopped telling me he loved me started expressing himself again. He was willing to give our relationship another chance which wasn’t the case a few months back.
All I did was I stopped begging and pleading, and instead I created positive happy thoughts and got the results.
However, I still falter at times and start thinking negatively because maybe I want his love to be more passionate. But I just have to realize that his love IS passionate. It exists in the “now” for me. and it will happen for me like all other things that fell magically into place. I just have to believe that it is happening right now.
Peace and love to all! 🙂