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Lost Weight And Perfect In Jeans
Submitted by: Lara
SydneyI first read The Secret a few years ago and am finally putting the teachings into regular practice!
First of all, thank you, thank you, thank you to everyone who submits stories, especially to do with weight loss. I have read them all and they completely inspired me and helped me keep the faith when results were nowhere to be found!
My story is pretty simple. I have been overweight for a few years. At first I didn’t really notice the weight gain but over time it was apparent that I couldn’t fit in any of my clothes. I was pretty sad about the whole thing and tried to diet and exercise my way back down. Nothing worked. I did shakes, raw foods, green smoothies, soups, running, dancing… The list goes on.
About 6 month ago my dad made a comment about my weight which devastated me. He had always been my biggest defender and here he was saying I was fat, which I already knew.
Once I stopped being upset, I remembered The Secret and that I was getting back what I was putting out. I decided to stop being sad and start using the teachings. I imagined myself slim. Every day I looked at pictures from the Internet and dreamed about my perfect body. I thought I had a handle on this. Nothing changed. I was dismayed. I tried again, this time using music to imagine myself at my perfect weight. Again a few weeks later nothing changed. In fact I was now 85kg and could barely fit into my size 14 jeans. I had never been that big in my life.
I decided to go back to basics. I wrote down lists of things I was grateful for. I picked a few favourite pictures from my online folders and looked at them daily. I visualised doing things in my perfect body. In real time as if I had that body now. I cleaned out my closet and threw out all my ugly big clothes and purchased new pretty things in smaller sizes.
I started to lose weight. Like automatically. I was relaxed and knew I could get there.
About a week and a half ago I set myself a goal. I had been losing weight slowly and wanted to see The Secret in action. I wanted to wear my size 10 jeans to my dad’s birthday, a week and a half away. At this poor I could barely pull them over my knees. But I imagined anyway. Every day I imagined being at the birthday party wearing these jeans. A few days passed and I decided to try them on. To my amazement I could pull them up. I couldn’t zip them at this point so I put them to the side till the day. I kept visualising but this time I focused on the feeling of zipping them up..
The day before his birthday I tried them on. This time they did zip up!! I haven’t been able to fit this size in 4 years and a week and a half ago I couldn’t get them over my legs! I am so grateful!!
If you have trouble visualising like I did, maybe start a little smaller. Start with something you can reasonably believe. I couldn’t believe fitting the size I wanted straight away so I got started with something easier. Now I have the confidence to keep going and imagine the size I truly desire! It’s so exciting.
Thank you thank you thank you!!
Keep going, never give up on your dreams! And if your having trouble remember your in control and they are just a simple mental shift away! Love you all:)