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LOA Works!
Submitted by: RA
IndiaA single girl in her 30s, seeking abundance in every aspect of my life.
I was introduced to The Secret by my mom years ago, when I was going through troubled times in my marriage. It took some time for me to accept the teachings and start to apply them, but The Secret was instrumental in the eventual amicable ending of a relationship that was never meant to be.
I was slightly apprehensive when my divorce was first finalized in late 2014, but I was applying The Secret right after we filed for separation and fabulous things happened. I took a long break from work, spent a couple of months with my folks in Russia and went on a family vacation with them and my sister to Puerto Rico.
To provide a bit of context, I am a third culture kid. Indian by origin, brought up in Russia, spent a decade in the US, studying and working before finding my way back to India. Single life in India is a very new experience for me, especially as a girl, and one in her 30s.
The divorce came through smoothly and easily, I met someone else who was local and we spent a few months being great friends and later more than that. He made me laugh, paid me compliments and the intimacy, when that finally happened, was great. I had given up on the idea of physical intimacy for myself, because things were never good in that respect, to put it mildly, with my ex-husband. So I was especially appreciative of that. In the long term it didn’t work out but I was happy and grateful for all these experiences as they were helping me figure out what I liked and wanted in a man.
In June 2016, I was over a year into working for the startup I’m with and really enjoying work, when I met someone through family. He had almost all the qualities I had put down for a spouse/partner in my secret wish list. We spent a wonderful couple of months together and for those two months, I really felt cherished and as though I had a real partner physically, mentally, emotionally. .
Then he went back to Mumbai where he lives and eventually we broke up.
I spent time on this website reading stories, talking to family and friends trying to make sense of what had happened. Every day was incrementally better and today I feel absolutely back to normal. While the relationship didn’t work out, today I know that it was but a stage in my journey to the guy I’m meant to be with. I am full of gratitude to all the guys I’ve been with in the past two years and to my friends who have been my rocks through these associations.
I’m writing this story to just say that despite this most recent pitfall, I fully believe in LOA works. I think LOA was absolutely instrumental in helping me come to grips with things this quickly and practicing writing the gratitude list and saying thanks for all the good things holding my gratitude rock in my hand every night has really helped me bring my vibrations up.
I’m very happy and grateful today for all the experiences I’ve had, personal and professional, for my family and friends and am very excited for the new opportunities that I sense are on the horizon for me personally and professionally.
I look forward to posting my next adventures and desires about meeting Mr. Right and our wonderful life together, as well as my amazing job and financial abundance, very soon on this portal.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!