I Know It Will Come if I Let Go!
Firstly, I want to say thank you to Rhonda and The Secret team for their work. As a Christian, what is explained in The Secret, The Magic and The Power is all throughout the Bible, but is never explained as simply as you have been able to. These books have helped me understand my faith more, and have made me feel so much happier and at peace. Thank you so much! Secondly, I want to thank everyone who shares their stories here because they have been such a source of blessing to me and have helped me to believe. Reading people’s stories has literally helped to boost my faith when I was at my lowest points and I couldn’t be more grateful. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Me and my boyfriend broke up in August of 2017 and it was very messy. Even after the break up we continued to argue and it got very toxic. Despite all this, I still loved him and decided I wanted to get him back, but I had no idea how. I tried all the techniques explained on the internet, The No Contact Rule and all the other techniques that supposedly work. And while they helped and our relationship improved to the point of some kind of friendship, they didn’t achieve my ultimate goal.
I started trying to attract him back by making room for him in my life; thinking of him positively; acting as if we were together; and generally feeling good about the situation. At first it really felt like nothing was happening, and it certainly didn’t help that I was receiving conflicting opinions in the law of attraction world as to whether it was possible to attract him back or not. While practicing these things, I didn’t completely believe that it was possible and these doubts made believing difficult.
Then I read The Secret, The Magic and The Power and realised that everything is about my belief. If I believe I can attract him back, then I am right. If I don’t believe I can attract him back, I am also right. So I decided to believe that I could. The only issue was that I couldn’t let go. I was so attached to the outcome it was unreal. By this point, so much time had passed since our initial break up that I was so sure he was so past our relationship. So I prayed and I asked God whether I needed to continue acting as if, because this was making me so attached.
I then decided to do an experiment. There was another person I wanted to attract into my life, an old friend that I had fallen out with. I said to God that I wanted this friend back in my life and then I let it go. I continued acting as if and thinking about my boyfriend every day. The idea was that if I manifested the friend quicker, then I needed to let go of my boyfriend and that once I did this, God would make a way.
Guess what happened yesterday?
I saw my old friend. She was at the library I was at and I was so shocked. I didn’t approach her because I didn’t know whether we were okay or not. But as soon as she saw me, she beckoned me over and we had an hour catch up and now we’re good! I thanked God because now I had my answer!
I had made plans to see my boyfriend this week so I saw him today, and no he didn’t confess his undying love for me. But, we did enjoy each other’s company and I could feel that things were different. I know that as soon as I figure out how to let go, which I am in the process of doing, we will be back together.
Seeing my friend, who I had not seen for nearly a year, was such a clear, miraculous sign about what I needed to do and I have never been more grateful! I am sure that my boyfriend and I will be reunited soon and I hope to keep everyone updated!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!